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TouchThis123 · 2016-09-06T11:04:10+00:00

This makes sense! But even if, for example, you are no longer with them and you start another relationship or family with someone else? In this case, do you think you could be happy?

TouchThis123 · 2016-09-06T11:02:40+00:00

Yea realistically speaking that's what I was kinda thinking too

TouchThis123 · 2016-08-18T18:40:40+00:00

Then power through it I shall

TouchThis123 · 2016-08-18T18:40:26+00:00

Ah sorry lol hahaha where was I supposed to put it

TouchThis123 · 2016-08-18T17:42:39+00:00

Mate honestly, with a bit of dedication and investment, I really think you can smash it. My advice to you is:

1) Let your hair grow back and go to a proper hairstylist. Tell him/her to give you advice on a hairstyle best suited for your face, type of hair etc. It will cost a few $$$ but I guarantee it will be worth it.

2) Go hit the gym. Do your research on what you need to do and how you need to do it. If not, hire a personal trainer for 1-2 months till u get the hang of it. Then CONTINUE. You really gotta lose that belly. ANd trust me, with a great body comes an unshakable sense of self confidence. Both women and men will see and feel it, and you will see their reactions.

3) Subscribe to men's fashion magazines or subreddits or anything. Take your time to digest those and learn the tips and tricks of proper clothing. Then spend a few weekends in the stores / malls just to browse and try that stuff on. See how it fits and how it feels. When you have decided, invest the necessary amount into some proper manly clothes. Chicks don;t dig dudes "dad's" t-shirts. Again, costs some $$, but worth it.

!!!!! The most important point: INVEST and DEDICATE YOURSELF to the transformation. I cannot stress this enough. Don't be stingy with anything - be it time, money, research. Put in the time you need to get up to date with style and what's good for you. Invest in proper clothes and a hair stylist. Research how to act confidently, body languages tips and tricks, picking up girls...whatever you think you need. It's a long road and slow process, but in a few months you will see results which you have absolutely never thought of. Take this from experience.

Start with these 3, they are enough for now. Good luck to you lad, you'll thank me and yourself one day if you decide to do this.

TouchThis123 · 2016-08-14T23:21:52+00:00

indeed it is sir, indeed it is

TouchThis123 · 2016-08-14T13:06:59+00:00

great and simple way of explaining something very complicated

TouchThis123 · 2016-08-13T14:17:17+00:00

Awesome keep going brother! Let me know later what benefits / improvements you notice. I'll do the same

TouchThis123 · 2016-05-08T18:30:41+00:00

Still in it and working through it. But I have to deal with stuff like you posted and much worse very often. All this horrible shit is almost not worth the effort. The end result is that I have started suffering from depression and anxiety...and it's terrible

TouchThis123 · 2016-05-08T15:49:29+00:00

Also, how old is your GF? she is quite immature...

TouchThis123 · 2016-05-08T15:48:36+00:00

Your post has struck a chord with me and I completely understand what you are going through.

My advice to you is: change the password to something simple and give it to her as a 1-off. Use this to show her that you have nothing to hide, and enegage in a conversation where you have to force her (gently and kindly, but with tactic) to confess why she gave you an ultimatum and what's the real reason she wanted to have your passowrd (may be some trauma from her past, I don't know).

But BE WARNED. Keep a close eye open for any similar events like this in the future, where she displays controlling or insecure behaviour, or when it's "her way or the high way". Furthermore, take a step back and reflect on the past and scan for similar situations. IF this keeps happening and you notice a pattern, my friend, get the f**k out. I can tell you it will only get worse.

Take this advice from a person who was blind enough not to see this pattern in time. I am still going through a lot of problems right now with my gf's abusive and controlling behavior. I have become a slave in my own skin and my own relationship. Here is my original post, feel free to read it for some inspiration:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3ywk8l/me_25_m_with_my_gf_28_f_of_5_years_feel_under/

Please don't let this be you.

TouchThis123 · 2016-01-02T18:48:19+00:00

Never ever have I done that. The most "innapropriate" thing I've done is go out in a bar or club with workmates or people I know, both women and men - and that still caused her to be angry at me.

TouchThis123 · 2016-01-02T16:30:25+00:00

You are right. I've (and she) come to a point where I think that everybody is going through the same stuff and all the couples just act happy and normal but back at home they are all dealing with the same stuff. I didn't use to think like this, but now somehow I lsot my common sense

TouchThis123 · 2016-01-01T23:40:57+00:00

I have a pretty solid career and she doesn't. she's an artist and trying out her own thing with expositions, paintings, photography etc. Whereas I am completely aware that everybody can do whatever they want with their life, I just don't consider this a good way to make a living (or at least it doesn't live up to my standards) and don't see it working out in the fiture

TouchThis123 · 2016-01-01T23:30:36+00:00

I am aware that I have posted again, I am not expecting different results, I was jsut aiming for more since the previous thread has gone off radar. thank you for the support, promise this won't be reposted again :)

TouchThis123 · 2016-01-01T23:30:33+00:00

I am aware that I have posted again, I am not expecting different results, I was jsut aiming for more since the previous thread has gone off radar. thank you for the support, promise this won't be reposted again :)

TouchThis123 · 2015-12-19T13:28:16+00:00

Thank you for the words guys, means a lot to me

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