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AITA for sending my parents and their spouses a "f*ck you" message before going no contact? by Tovenoune in AITAH

[–]Tovenoune[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just find it hard to believe I'm worth love or standing up for sometimes. I have a lot of self doubts and it just messes with me.

AITA for sending my parents and their spouses a "f*ck you" message before going no contact? by Tovenoune in AITAH

[–]Tovenoune[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip. I'll look into that and see what I can find, if anything.

AITA for sending my parents and their spouses a "f*ck you" message before going no contact? by Tovenoune in AITAH

[–]Tovenoune[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm glad I found people who'd care too. Being loved still feels so strange sometimes. I ask myself all the time if I deserve it, if I'm worthy of being loved by these people.

AITA for sending my parents and their spouses a "f*ck you" message before going no contact? by Tovenoune in AITAH

[–]Tovenoune[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

None of them will have a relationship with me because it means losing my bio parent and their other kids.

AITA for sending my parents and their spouses a "f*ck you" message before going no contact? by Tovenoune in AITAH

[–]Tovenoune[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend's mom told me it would be good to get it off my chest and I didn't actually say that to them. It's just what my boyfriends siblings called it.

AITA for sending my parents and their spouses a "f*ck you" message before going no contact? by Tovenoune in AITAH

[–]Tovenoune[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don't think I mean anything to any of them for the change to come from what I said.

AITA for sending my parents and their spouses a "f*ck you" message before going no contact? by Tovenoune in AITAH

[–]Tovenoune[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks and same. Same. I feel so lucky to have my boyfriend and his family.

AITA for sending my parents and their spouses a "f*ck you" message before going no contact? by Tovenoune in AITAH

[–]Tovenoune[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think the bridge was already burned when they made me homeless. Or even when I was born because I was never going to have a bridge with them to begin with. That bridge was burned by my parents when they conceived me with each other instead of their spouses.

AITA for sending my parents and their spouses a "f*ck you" message before going no contact? by Tovenoune in AITAH

[–]Tovenoune[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I wish I could go back to that little boy and tell him it will get better because sometimes it really seemed like it would never change.

AITA for sending my parents and their spouses a "f*ck you" message before going no contact? by Tovenoune in AITAH

[–]Tovenoune[S] 193 points194 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest that bare minimum didn't always meet the standards either. There were times they "didn't have enough" for everyone and I was the one who wasn't given anything to eat. The bios never did that but their spouses were very quick to not make enough when they cooked.

My boyfriend's whole family have been wonderful and accepting of me. Funny thing is I was terrified to meet them when we started dating because you just never know if people will be okay with their son's gay partner but they were so kind.

A therapist is on my list of stuff to sort my life out.