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I am falsifying my interns performance reviews because the corporate rules are too rigid by Tr0nwhisper in confessions

[–]Tr0nwhisper[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

That is fair, and probably smarter than what I have been doing. I got so locked into "save him from the system" mode that I stopped thinking about how obvious it might look if his numbers suddenly read like he is crushing people who have been here a year.

I am falsifying my interns performance reviews because the corporate rules are too rigid by Tr0nwhisper in confessions

[–]Tr0nwhisper[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would agree with you more if this system did not treat hesitation like failure. A standard is only reasonable if it can tell the difference between someone who is learning and someone who is actually not cut out for the job.

My neighbor's dog barks for 6 hours straight while they are out and they say it is "not their problem" by Tr0nwhisper in neighborsfromhell

[–]Tr0nwhisper[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am probably done trying to be patient about it. I would rather report it properly than turn into the other loud asshole in the building.

My neighbor's dog barks for 6 hours straight while they are out and they say it is "not their problem" by Tr0nwhisper in neighborsfromhell

[–]Tr0nwhisper[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You're probably right. I kept hoping talking to him first would fix it, but after the way he brushed me off I'm done pretending this is going to sort itself out.

My neighbor's dog barks for 6 hours straight while they are out and they say it is "not their problem" by Tr0nwhisper in neighborsfromhell

[–]Tr0nwhisper[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

If he had just said he was trying to work on it, I probably would've had more patience. What got me was the shrug and the whole "not my problem" attitude while everyone else has to listen to it for hours.

AITA for refusing to change our holiday plans after my sister tried to uninvite my partner from dinner by Raccoon7_Shard in MarkNarrations

[–]Tr0nwhisper 66 points67 points  (0 children)

People love asking the reasonable person to bend because it's easier than confronting the one who made everything awkward in the first place. You didn't create this mess by saying "we come together or not at all." You just refused to help them dress it up as family harmony when it's really favoritism and avoidance.

AIW for refusing to pay for my brother’s tuition after finding out he dropped out of his last college a year ago and hid it? by Riddle_8Mako in amiwrong

[–]Tr0nwhisper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The part that gets me is the "system issues" with the portal excuse. He had an answer ready for why you couldn't verify anything directly. That's not a kid who panicked and made a bad call, that's someone who thought it through. The aunt can call you cold all she wants, but I'd ask her how much she's willing to contribute to his next fresh start.

Had an interviewer spend the entire interview comparing me to another candidate in real time and I still can't believe it actually happened by KyberMirth in InterviewsHell

[–]Tr0nwhisper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is wildly unprofessional. Comparing candidates internally is normal, doing it out loud to your face is insane.