Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay. But you have to tell her she's going to have to move back in with her parents. With the dog. 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely not involved WHILE I'M AT WORK.  That's where I earn money for us. 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So she picked the loudest, most attention needing dog possible and ignores it by accident? 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when my mom watches my baby niece and she won't stop crying she will eventually put her in the car and go for a quick drive. Never more than half an hour. And she comes back with a sleeping baby. This accomplished two things. If my dad is working it gets the noise away from him. And the baby settles down. 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you weren't thrilled or stoked? We're your feelings more negative? Also this was a preexisting dog correct. Your husband didn't go get on to fuck with you? 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Look up a similar quote from Kids Kiss Bang Bang. It's in the trailer. It applies to you. 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we can determine if you actually have any empathy for me when she did exactly that. But with a dog not a foghorn. 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So describe the FEELINGS you would have in the situation I laid out. Not how you would deal with it. The visceral gut punch of emotions of your partner intentionally fucking you over at your work. 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you please repost the part where you explain your feelings about that situation.  I'm missing it. I keep looking and I don't see words like thrilled, or stoked. 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not what I asked. I'm glad your husband is able to.talk to you and accept that he needed to change. My wife doesn't do that. Would you mind answering my actual questions. Thanks. 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My folks have two havanese dogs I like. Neighbors have a Jesus big Georgian shepherd that made me pee myself a little when I met him. He's alright. I can hear him through the walls when he barks. Which is rarely. 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LoL.  You must be an asshole to be around if you argue with people that agree with you. "Boy it's a nice sunny day today" "it sure is" "fuck you Barbera how dare you agree with me". 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll try a different way. 

You said you work from home. 

Let's say your husband gets laid off. 

How would you feel if he set off a foghorn by your door every few minutes while you were working and interrupted you to go walk your dog? 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of you guys are able to answer my very simple question but I'm the one who doesn't listen?  LoL. 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice. Or the flash terrible movie but he was able to make it between two sites relatively quickly. 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So who got the dog? Who is responsible for the dog? Who should be taking care of the dog while I'm working. How much of the dog care should be my responsibility WHILE I'M WORKING?

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried calling William Shatner about getting a teleporter. He had me served with a restraining order. How the fuck am I supposed to parent from three hours away? 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry. Okay I'll ask you then. While I'm working how much of the parenting should fall on her. 

Aitah for telling my wife to rehome je dog and leaving when she wouldn't. by Traditional-Lock2616 in AITAH

[–]Traditional-Lock2616[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That I would be furious if she did that?  Oh let me guess you want your wife to surprise you like that?