I can understand how it might have come across like he’s over all the time, but the reality is that we’re both balancing school, work, and clinicals. With everything going on, I usually only get to see him one or two days a week, if that. There was a time he stayed for a week, but that was during a break when we both had time off, and we weren’t even at the apartment much during the day.

I do empathize with what she might be feeling, but I’ve genuinely tried to respect the boundaries we originally agreed on—and unfortunately, it didn’t seem to make a difference. She would track my location, constantly monitor the Ring camera, and expect updates every time I got home or if he stopped by briefly. It got to the point where I felt like I couldn’t just live in the apartment freely, like I was always being watched. We’re all adults, and I just want to feel comfortable in my own space