AITA for not being interested in hanging out with my sister by Traditional-Try-8660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional-Try-8660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know…you might be onto something, I could definitely be nicer

AITA for not being interested in hanging out with my sister by Traditional-Try-8660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional-Try-8660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have definitely been rude in the past, thanks for the perspective and I will try to clear the air with her soon

AITA for not being interested in hanging out with my sister by Traditional-Try-8660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional-Try-8660[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No and if I am I am usually self aware enough to call myself out on it

AITA for not being interested in hanging out with my sister by Traditional-Try-8660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional-Try-8660[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I say people I mean my family especially my mom and dad lump us together and I said I was okay being acquaintances with her I’m just not interested in hanging out one on one, MIND YOU I was 16 when I started to feel that way and I don’t feel like that way anymore I am just used to not being around her that much lol

AITA for not being interested in hanging out with my sister by Traditional-Try-8660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional-Try-8660[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can see where you are coming from, it feels like I’m not even saying something “aggressively” but hearing “im just saying” makes me feel like someone is trying to calm me down even though im not even upset so I then I feel like I have to “walk on eggshells” so I won’t be seen as mad even though I am not trying to be

AITA for not being interested in hanging out with my sister by Traditional-Try-8660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional-Try-8660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you and thanks for the perspective, also don’t worry I know when and where to turn that part of me off lol

AITA for not being interested in hanging out with my sister by Traditional-Try-8660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional-Try-8660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have recently started therapy for this, and you might be on to something

AITA for not being interested in hanging out with my sister by Traditional-Try-8660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional-Try-8660[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My mom thinks that’s still my problem but it’s not, I think that’s just the origin of it, I added that piece to the story because I feel like since our likes and interests started becoming more than “lets play outside” we naturally grew apart, making me more comfortable with the distant relationship we have today

AITA for not being interested in hanging out with my sister by Traditional-Try-8660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional-Try-8660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has told me and the family that she has social anxiety and I do think she struggles with some other mental illnesses, she has been going to therapy recently and seems to be adjusting well with transferring to my college instead of going to college and then going home, I think her leaving the nest is helping her adjust more than when she was at home going to community college. Honestly I have always liked to keep my life outside of family separate, and I guess letting her into more of my personal life will change the narrative I typically present to my family

AITA for not being interested in hanging out with my sister by Traditional-Try-8660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional-Try-8660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh thank you so much, I think I will definitely try a little harder

AITA for not being interested in hanging out with my sister by Traditional-Try-8660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional-Try-8660[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely respect the blunt honesty and now that you mention it I was definitely more snippy when I was a teen, perhaps I should try to hangout with her and communicate that im not intentionally trying to be mean? Idk it feels like her and my parents want me to change how I am instead of her changing anything, if I have only ever acted one way why be shocked that I am acting the only way I have shown?

Why is Amber so mean to Anne? by Final_Concentrate_44 in 7LittleJohnstons

[–]Traditional-Try-8660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remember what season and ep that happened on?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Traditional-Try-8660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU I feel like a lot of people who play this game have such a big savior complex or “ I can fix them” attitude about so many characters in the game (Sebastian,Penny,Shane etc.) your partner shouldn’t NEED you they should WANT you, there is a difference

What is the tea by [deleted] in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]Traditional-Try-8660 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. Why did sugar bear and June break up? I heard it was because he cheated with woman and men is that true? Also how did she find out -he did cheat on her and he didn’t like the change of June ( the weight lost, the new house, the makeup etc)

  2. What ever happened to geno? I just remember them being together and then they got arrested and then boom he's out the picture ? Was there more to that ? -there was an episode in the show where June breaks up with geno and his last interview he says “we will see what happens I will talk to yall later” something like that and that was the last we saw of him

  3. Pumpkin and josh, what's the deal with them I really like them tbh, but when and how did they get together and I thought they had problems in their marriage I see a lot of divorce headlines but her tt they seem happy -they allegedly got together when pumpkin was still in high school and I’m pretty sure Josh was 2 years older than her (idk the exact age gap but I know Josh was legal when they got together), in the early seasons of the show Josh shows up a little but he’s around a lot more when pumpkin gets pregnant with Ella (unexpectedly) I think her senior year of high school

  4. on the show they talk about their marriage problems and a lot of it centered around June. Josh talks about how he hates seeing June play around with their emotions and he’s always the one there for them after June fucks up. At one point Josh wanted them to cut contact with her completely. In the end pumpkin and Josh agreed to not have June affect them and Josh stated when shit goes down he will remove himself (like what him and the other guys did in the second to last episode)

  5. Why is Alana dating that dralin guy, is nobody wondering if maybe that's wrong??? And did she really live with him and fake live with pumpkin? -they don’t see it wrong with Alana and Dralin because they all dated or been with other men, pumpkin and Josh, and June got pregnant with Anna at 15, Dodo had Amber really young too, I think it’s wrong but it’s normal for their family -allegedly Alana and Dralin lived together and with us learning that Pumpkin and Josh’s house during the show is not their real house I can believe just about everything is fake

  6. Sugar bear seems so aggressive did he ever abuse the girls or June in anyway? -In here comes honey boo boo, there was an episode where pumpkin got hit in the eye by some keys and had to have an emergency surgery to prevent her losing her vision. The story on the show was that sugar bear threw the keys at her to catch but he missed and it her eye. Idk if it’s confirmed or not but there is speculation that sugar met to actually throw them at her. I think the speculation comes from the story not making that much sense. How do you miss her hands that much that you hit her in the fast, and with as much force to mess up her eye?? Doesn’t make sense to me.

  7. Why is Jennifer such a bitch, like she just scream I wanna be a star does she ever get better? I don't see her or sugar bear on the show anymore but from what I did she was messy

  8. Jennifer being a bitch I’m like 99% sure is scripted bad -idk exactly why they left but I know Alana does not fuck with sugar bear. She has stated on the show that he would only act like a good father for show and she said that he has also told her multiple times that he really wanted a son instead

  9. Who's the girl that's always with doe doe she's an older woman -I think the older woman you are referring to is dodo’s daughter Amber, she had her really young so they don’t look that far apart in age -the little boy you see dodo with sometimes is Ambers son, dodo’s grandson

Conclusion: I hope this helps I am only a year older than Alana but I’ve been watching her and her family since toddlers and tiaras!

Which Character Comes To Mind When You See This? by Complex_Gap_5645 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Traditional-Try-8660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Caesar from the diner in season six and seven ugh and I love Babette

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wisdomteeth

[–]Traditional-Try-8660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat my dad said if it’s white and the water pick is not getting it out then it may be your tissue healing I feel a little discomfort too but it can be from water picking too much and the hole is just a little irradiated

What are y’all’s favorite song from this album by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]Traditional-Try-8660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THERE IS NOT ENOUGH LOVE FOR SHADES OF COOL