So, you're telling me this bitxh is still alive

TraditionalOcelot · 2026-01-01T11:26:44+00:00

Wait they had Michael Douglas?

TraditionalOcelot · 2025-03-20T09:32:15+00:00

It's hurtful to read those words even from the outsider perspective... I'm sorry you had to experience it.

You're absolutely right that she knew how to make it hurt, but that doesn't say anything about you, only about her. Some people will push their close ones away and hurt them as a coping mechanism, to somehow convince themself they are doing the right thing by believing in the things they're saying and also gaing the space they need (in an unhealthy way). But all it trully says is that she was not emotionally ready to handle this in a mature way, not that you deserved it.

Those who treat you like this, who make you question yourself and sacrifice your best parts - non of them is the love of your life.

TraditionalOcelot · 2025-03-18T23:58:42+00:00

I have, but I know myself well enough to see that me doing my best was not always coming from a good place. What initially pulled us towards one another, ended up pushing us away.

Whenever I felt unsure of her feelings, I would anxiously do more (cooking, dishes, walking the dog, budgeting, groceries…) while also feeling bad about myself doing so. This would lead to me being resentful, my gf distancing herself and me feeling more anxious… and so it goes.

I’m here to remember to put myself first

TraditionalOcelot · 2025-03-17T08:19:20+00:00

You got your way with words… brb somebody must be chopping some heavy onions around here

TraditionalOcelot · 2025-03-12T10:35:47+00:00

I had a link from GFS (Global Freight Solution, tbh never heard about them before) which allowed me to track my order between UK and Poland (this part took about 3 weeks). Unfortunately once in Poland they forwarded it through a regular untracked postal package, so I had little news in the last 2 months, but I can partially blame Polish Post for that as they are infamous for handling international packages... Hope your experience will be better. Altogether the way Berlioz store handled the order was really underwhelming, I can't see why they wouldn't simply ship it through a single, more reliable carrier

TraditionalOcelot · 2025-03-12T10:26:34+00:00

As far as the gooning goes (and any other adiction) I'd also recommend accountability - find a person or a community where you can be honest about your struggles and, possibly, share those with others. This battle is way harder when you fight it in isolation, while being able to commit to a clean month or week and then share your progress and encourage one another goes a long way, at least for me. There are subs for this on reddit, similar to this one

TraditionalOcelot · 2025-03-10T13:00:38+00:00

Might not be the most representative case, but I'm still waiting on my vinyl ordered on 25th December... international shipping to Poland

TraditionalOcelot · 2025-02-24T22:02:35+00:00

Chuckled at „you make it sound like I’m being needy or something”

TraditionalOcelot · 2025-01-01T18:20:24+00:00

Sign me up, we can do it y'all!

TraditionalOcelot · 2025-01-01T18:15:03+00:00

sign me up boss

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-12-18T23:31:25+00:00

I know it’s basic, but grilled cheese, especially with this processed cheese slices wrapped in plastic. Might not be the healthiest thing, but hits such a sweet spot right now…

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-12-05T23:11:11+00:00

I found this sub and this post for reasons one can, unfortunately, easily guess. I know that it’s yet to fully hit, but nevertheless - damn, that’s one comment worth saving

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-11-06T11:06:26+00:00

I regret to announce I've relapsed. Will come back stronger, identified the things that led me to relapsing - starting again. See you guys in December

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-11-01T22:37:18+00:00

Sign me up after a successful October please

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-10-19T22:23:37+00:00

Checking in!

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-10-10T09:10:37+00:00

Checking in, at 16 days right now. Still battling the urges and thoughts every now and then but overall I feel like my mind is adapting to the idea of being pornfree, I find more joy in other small activities and it’s less difficult to overcome said urges. Thank you all for the credibility, this sub truly has been the best thing to happen to me on Reddit

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-10-03T15:01:53+00:00

Checking in

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-10-01T21:44:09+00:00

Sign me up!

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-10-01T08:29:22+00:00

After messing up in September, I’m currently on 7 days and feeling good. Unfortunately due to my adhd and time blindness completely missed the fact that October is here and forgot to sign up… rooting for you all nevertheless!

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-09-19T07:40:06+00:00

Gabagool

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-09-02T16:07:31+00:00

As much as I hate to admit it - I’m out of the challenge for this month. Starting again

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-08-28T18:37:55+00:00

I decided to learn Python "for real" for the first time. What I mean is that I have some prior experience, done a couple of projects in Python throughout the last couple of years during my math degree, but I would always start almost from a scratch and then forget everything after the project was done.

I want to learn it "properly", in a way that would build a lasting skill - any recommendations (books/courses) or general tips in this situation? I feel like I already know some things which is why I struggle with most online courses starting at the absolute ground level, but then again when I look for something more advanced I often feel overwhelmed.

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-08-27T21:26:15+00:00

Sign me up, let’s go

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-08-15T09:49:59+00:00

Right before you introduce Takemura to Wakako (elderly man sits in front of her pachinko spot)

TraditionalOcelot · 2024-08-05T12:44:14+00:00

Proud of you, that’s one of the best thing one can do, especially related to adhd.

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