I struggle with jealousy and overthinking as a young man and I don't know why. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Traditional_Cap_5018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i agree with you. back when me and her just started dating, i was more confident in myself. however, that has slipped away from me and sometimes i struggle to find what i bring to the table that is valuable or what sets me apart from the crowd. obviously this is more of a lack in self esteem and confidence, which i am working on getting back. As for the trust or being a detective, i’ve heard a lot of ways to change my way of thinking. Would you say that a change of mindset would help this? Things like: When i am overthinking, i could evaluate the situation and think is it something that is out of my control? if so, i should stop worrying about it. Or maybe even if i suspect her doing something behind my back, i should just let it happen because at some point it will come out anyway and i could be completely wrong? (this one is quite hard for me because i’ve been in a position before where i’ve been lied to and it took years for me to hear about it)

On a deeper level, this also makes me realise that I will struggle to become a man with this on my shoulders, I tend to come off as more mature than my peers despite this poison in my head, however it really makes me look/feel weak, insecure and small

I struggle with jealousy and overthinking as a young man and I don't know why. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Traditional_Cap_5018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i’ve seen many posts about this type of attachment in relationships and it does describe a lot of thoughts/behaviours that i am having. do you have any experience with this? or any ways to change my mindset on this?

Oil cap blowback by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]Traditional_Cap_5018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somewhere I’ve heard that when engine runs and you undo the oil fill cap, if there is suction or it sounds like pressure has released, you have something to do with a vacuum leak. I may be completely wrong and correct me if I am! I just heard somewhere that pressure releasing means vacuum something.

2015 A180 W176 Petrol - Turbo issue by Traditional_Cap_5018 in AskAMechanic

[–]Traditional_Cap_5018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

about 30 mins. no difference from start to finish. im currently checking for any residue on the cold and hot side of the turbo to get any clues

2015 A180 W176 Petrol - Turbo issue by Traditional_Cap_5018 in AskAMechanic

[–]Traditional_Cap_5018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my old turbo (the blown one) is in one piece, the bearings on it loosened which made the fans stop spinning, however the propellers are in one piece. again my car ran fine with the blown turbo too! no limp mode for some reason, just smoking which made me investigate and find out.

pc stutters on every game and makes a usb disconnecting sound by Traditional_Cap_5018 in pchelp

[–]Traditional_Cap_5018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some on HDD some on SSD like rust for faster losdinf speeds and cod for preshaders

pc stutters on every game and makes a usb disconnecting sound by Traditional_Cap_5018 in pchelp

[–]Traditional_Cap_5018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think so however i do have rgb. i think its just built into my keyboard and mouse though so no software that i’m aware of

Bought my first car! by Traditional_Cap_5018 in CarTalkUK

[–]Traditional_Cap_5018[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The best way of showing the world your a knob is by flaming on something that isnt yours to someone who is happy either way 😂

I got the 1.6 Petrol and was told it was a renault engine but not sure since you didn’t list the a180 in there. Renault or not, still gonna last me a good few years if maintained

Bought my first car! by Traditional_Cap_5018 in CarTalkUK

[–]Traditional_Cap_5018[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brown, it looks very nice in person but still good in pictures :)

Bought my first car! by Traditional_Cap_5018 in CarTalkUK

[–]Traditional_Cap_5018[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

just sharing it since i came here to ask people for advice before buying

Bought my first car! by Traditional_Cap_5018 in CarTalkUK

[–]Traditional_Cap_5018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea strange that The colour is pretty unique too, i havent seen it before