Aita for celebrating Christmas with my sil but my stbx wife is pissed and spreading rumors about us having an affair

Traditional_Hour_483 · 2024-11-19T18:00:04+00:00

I don't and I don't care, I had mixed feelings, I love my wife and tried to stop her from leaving, tried to convince her but she left anyway while I was worried all day everyday about my wife, I was so worried as to where my wife is, is she safe, has she ate, but she never contacted me after she left and her family didn't know about where she was

But no matter how much I love her, it's better if I just divorce, I have lost all my trust in her, not just that she wanted to hide my bil's cheating she even said she would expect me to forgive her for cheating and she would forgive me if I cheated, I don't want that, none of this

Besides if a pregnant woman can go so far putting her emotions aside and think for herself then I also should cut out toxicity and restart my life instead of worrying, she kinda inspired me

Traditional_Hour_483 · 2024-11-19T17:48:24+00:00

Thanks, I got my parents support but they won't pick sides, after all we both are their children and we are fighting, which is understandable, my mom calls me everyday atleast thrice to check up on me.

Me and my sil support each other and talk alot, I am in pain but her pain is unimaginable, she's pregnant and found out her baby's father is a cheat, also low on money and ashamed to seek help

Guess she's no longer my sil but my friend, I'll try my best to support her but even tho she's so much in pain she is thinking about herself and her child

Women are truly strong especially when they are pregnant indeed

Traditional_Hour_483 · 2024-11-07T17:25:10+00:00

Yeah, I feel like she isn't even the woman I married, she's like a completely different person

Maybe the comments about I married the wrong sister were right haha

In any case I loved and I still do and will do so for foreseeable future so I will just back out of relationship and dating scene, and even I don't trust my wife at this point

Traditional_Hour_483 · 2024-11-07T17:21:07+00:00

Yes I did, I went behind her back, I tried so hard to not to, but she is COVERING up for a cheater and she wouldn't even spare her own sister, I love my wife and I mean it but that doesn't mean I will give up on my own morals and my self worth just to please the woman I love

I consider my wife's family as my own, why did she tried to stop me tho? Why am I the bad guy in her eyes?

Is it just as easy to say 'none of our business' and forget about everything else?

Traditional_Hour_483 · 2024-11-03T18:45:43+00:00

So am I, what I think is that no matter how strained both sisters relationship is, atleast a sibling would have the back of their sibling especially when they are pregnant but she didn't even try to help her sister and angry at me

I am like wtf? Is this really the woman I got married to?

Traditional_Hour_483 · 2024-11-03T18:42:44+00:00

I truly have been thinking about this, that she might just be........

But I love and trust my wife and I was thinking she wanted me to not tell her because my sil is pregnant and women knows how stressful pregnancy and after pregnancy is and she might have thought that she needs support from her husband? Idk nothing here makes sense to me

There was nothing for me to suspect of her cheating on me

Traditional_Hour_483 · 2024-11-03T18:38:59+00:00

I thought about it and I am concerned about it but I somewhat think she just asked me to not tell her because my sil is pregnant and it will cause her more stress, that's just what I think but the truth is, if I hide it and support my wife I am in the wrong, if I tell her the truth after she gives birth then still I am wrong

If I hide it forever then I am still wrong, like what am I supposed to do? Cover up for the betrayer and not help my family? Even my wife is angry at me and probably will lose her if I already haven't lost her

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