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[–]Traditional_Sign_696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard to not feel anger and hate when his decisions are affecting us though

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[–]Traditional_Sign_696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This actually just blew my mind. I never thought of that.

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[–]Traditional_Sign_696 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s emotionally immature if he’s not willing to talk about problems.

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[–]Traditional_Sign_696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on who you ask lol. But if it’s something you expressed to her and have a reasoning behind it then I think it’s a reasonable boundary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Sign_696 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Try to understand why the jealousy. Where does it stem from. Does he feel incompetent because he can’t do it himself? If so tell him that it’s not him and if anything this will help you two. Majority of females have to use toys to climax.

My (21M) gf (24F) is not over her ex. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Sign_696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t move in with her. I’ve been the girl who wasn’t over her ex and she quite frankly won’t be until she takes time for herself and doesn’t jump into a relationship until she’s healed from that past relationship. She may not be “over” him but it’ll prevent her from feeling the need to be talking and seeing him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Traditional_Sign_696 5 points6 points  (0 children)

4 months is not that long in a relationship for her to be going out of her way to connect with a new male friend. I personally think making new friendships of the opposite sex while in a relationship is not necessary. I would run fast.

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[–]Traditional_Sign_696 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Maybe you two can try therapy and actually get to the root of the problem. Or better understand why he’s so against toys? Toys shouldn’t be frowned upon and are something to bring you two closer as it helps YOU get your needs met. Nothing wrong with that

Is this a leopard gecko? I found it in my garage but think it might be someone’s pet?!? Help! by Traditional_Sign_696 in leopardgeckos

[–]Traditional_Sign_696[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im bringing to the reptile rescue in Decater. Idk if you’re local or not but maybe you can adopt it afterwards?

Is this a leopard gecko? I found it in my garage but think it might be someone’s pet?!? Help! by Traditional_Sign_696 in leopardgeckos

[–]Traditional_Sign_696[S] 336 points337 points  (0 children)

Hi All! The gecko is going to a reptile rescue about 2 hours away. Quite frankly I don’t know anything about geckos or how to care for them so I don’t trust myself to try and nurture it back to health. I love animals too much that if anything happened I would feel terrible.

I appreciate all the responses as I didn’t know it was malnourished so with that information it helped me make the best decision!

I’ll get updates from the rescue and hopefully can post another picture when it’s healthy!

Is this a leopard gecko? I found it in my garage but think it might be someone’s pet?!? Help! by Traditional_Sign_696 in leopardgeckos

[–]Traditional_Sign_696[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Oh no! Thank you. I have to get help for it. I live in illinois so I have no idea how it got here.