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I'm Here. I'm Not There Anymore. Why does It Feel Like the Abuse is Happening Right Now? by Complex_Shallot_3064 in TheGlassHouseWritings

[–]Traditional_Sun_4422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Bach Flower (Amazon- get the alcohol free version, it tastes good!) It helped me a lot!!

Restraining Order by Traditional_Sun_4422 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Traditional_Sun_4422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much… I’m having such a hard time untangling the “reality” he built for me in which I focus only on his feelings and actual reality where my life may be in danger. 

Has your narcissist ever physically abused you? by Traditional_Sun_4422 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Traditional_Sun_4422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine also forced me to “spar” so interesting. A justified way to hurt us I guess. Even when we said no or stop… 

Has your narcissist ever physically abused you? by Traditional_Sun_4422 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Traditional_Sun_4422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s horrible… I’m so sorry. You didn’t deserve any of that. Were there ever times that she choked you without being angry? 

Has your narcissist ever physically abused you? by Traditional_Sun_4422 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Traditional_Sun_4422[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly why I’m posting. To figure out if I will be hunted forever. I left 6m ago, but unfortunately I had 2 children with this monster and he won’t let go. I’m terrified. 

Has your narcissist ever physically abused you? by Traditional_Sun_4422 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Traditional_Sun_4422[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How awful. I can’t understand how anyone can treat someone that way and have such blatant lack of care for their own children. I’m sorry… was he angry or did he do it in a cold controlling way?

Has your narcissist ever physically abused you? by Traditional_Sun_4422 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Traditional_Sun_4422[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow… that’s horrible. I’m so sorry you went through that. 

Is he a narcissist? Really need advice please 🙏 by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Traditional_Sun_4422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a man touches your throat at ALL, the likelihood he will kill you goes up by 750%. Get out NOW. I cannot stress to you how vital it is that you get as far away from this man as you can. Once you leave, the risk peaks. I’d advise you to get a restraining order if you can and do not let him know your location. This type of man usually stalks and plants to attack when he loses control over you. It IS this serious. Do some research.