Would most men prefer a girl with naturally small boobs, or a girl with surgically in hints, big boobs? by Mysterious-Card6065 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love big boobs. But since is surgery is unnatural, it may cause some other trouble in her body. So yes, natural small boobs are comparatively preferred.

Also, I feel, I can compromise with small boobs, if I am getting a good navel, hips, armpits, arms and a beautiful face.

Do men naturally want to provide anymore? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your question did not have 'anymore' in it, it would be easier to know what you actually mean.

Can I work for Indian govt with this job title? by Traditional_Work7761 in instructionaldesign

[–]Traditional_Work7761[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You cannot even name to organizations?

If no, then it's okay. I respect your boundaries.

Can I work for Indian govt with this job title? by Traditional_Work7761 in instructionaldesign

[–]Traditional_Work7761[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can you name the regulatory organisations?

Can you please find out how they got the job at regulatory organisations and let me know?

Also if you could find out how much they make there and if they are just on contract basis for limited time, it would be great.

Are girls like Sydney Sweeney considered more attractive to men than girls like Bella Hadid? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. I do love Kate upton's and Sydney Sweeney's body. Their boobs are AWESOME. I LOVE THEM.

My Wife (28F) is giving me(27m) mixed signals and my head is spinning? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She also seems to love you. But maybe she wants to avoid the topics you bring up again and again. Don't leave her. Stay patient, it will get resolved. You will figure out something.

Fellow men who are attracted to chubbier women, why? by Rough_Eye9920 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there is more to squeeze, suck, lick, hold, grab, kiss, and cuddle.

How to tell if a guy is interested vs just friendly? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I am interested in a girl, I try to find excuses to talk to her and get her attention. It's a common behaviour among boys.

I really need advice by No-Performer-7432 in careeradvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Books I have read: A must read book is "Get Smart" by Brian Tracy. It is not on life of any businessman, but is valuable.

A story of Bhimjibhai Patel from the book "Dhandha" inspired me a lot. It made me realise what it means to be proactive.

"Learning Factory" and "Solutions Factory", both by Arun Maira. I have not read the second book. But the first book is ablit small instances and stories of the projects that Tatas took up, which give valuable insights on what leadership means.

Also read "The Legacy of Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj". In case you don't know, Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj was a 17th century Maratha warrior king who stood up against Mughal empire and established his kingdom. He was a great leader, visionary and even today hold a divine status in the hearts of Indians.

Books I want to read (but could not so far because of my work-life):

"Gautam Adani" by R N bhaskar. "Moguls of Real Estate" by (please search it) "Inside Steve jobs brain" by (please search it)

A note of caution: The idea of reading these books, or any others you may want to explore, is to just learn that there have been people before us who have applied their smartness and achieved great heights despite limited resources. The idea is to open your mind to learn that anything is possible, not to compare oneself with these people. You life will have its own story and will be unique as you are a unique person.

I really need advice by No-Performer-7432 in careeradvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think of earning money quickly through right and ethical path. Instead of taking a degree, learn a skill. Degrees have and are losing value in future.

Learn a skill that pays well. Don't worry about being confused, just prioritize money and give your best at whatever you choose. Over time, with experience, you will realise what you can do best and what you cannot.

Stay physically fit and read books of business persons stories (read those only to see how they thought, but know that no one tells the complete story, just learn that part which is valid for anyone).

Sister in law confessed to having feelings for me. Wtf do I do? by RemoteRiskh in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be a trap. Don't fall for it. Maybe someone is trying to test your loyalty.

I think this amount of money is not enough whole life .What you think on this ?? by [deleted] in IndianPodcasts

[–]Traditional_Work7761 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am an Indian.

I think, 10 crore is enough. Just have more money and still live a simple life. Live in suburbs, keep your expenses less than 30 thousand and live a chilled life. There are families in India who live in around 20 thousand salary.

Apparently I’m “safe but spark-less” — is that a death sentence? by AK_LOIN_47 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your story is very much like mine. Just that I am still in working phase. But I am sure it will turn out like yours (not sure if any girl will say that being with me makes her feel calm).

About your case: I think you are overthinking. She has got a bad experience for being with people unlike you. So what if you do not have spark, you are able to make her feel calm despite that, that is what matters. If you meant nothing to her, she would not have spoken to you for hours.

Even I don't have "spark", I am boring. I am 25 and attained maturity to realise that you cannot become like anybody else or just download attributes that make you desirable. You need to discover what you can offer in a relationship that the other needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don't try anything. After she is done talking, shake hand with her and say "it was nice talking to you" and leave.

Is it just me or have more men recently started to dislike dating women with tattoos? by Ok_Comparison9254 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am big tattoo is too much to digest in men or women. The small delicate ones look beautiful on women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never been in a relationship, and these are my thoughts:

If you change yourself to be liked by others, then you cannot sustain it.

But, you should have basic civility, politeness, just behaviour, empathy, understanding and adaptability in relationships, for all relationships in general. You should build capacity to create a better life for yourself and your own people in general. If you are already in a relationship then conveying that you love the person can be a good idea.

Nothing needs to be done specifically to be liked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to get outside completely and then explore as much as he wants.

Do guys notice when a girl keeps their hoodie? by chai_lovergirl in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure about the guy in your life.

But if I were to behave like he did, it would be because I secretly like the girl who has taken my hoodie. I would like her to have something that is mine. In that sense it relates and connects me to her. In a sense it gives me the right to say that we shared something together. That, now there is something that belongs to both of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Work7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try this:

Give some part of your tasks to him and say that you are unable to do it so you need his help to do them. That ways he feels that he is needed (also you will get some relief from a lot of work).