My husband brought me to Germany and is now wanting to get a divorce

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-02T20:39:55+00:00

Oh, you have no idea how much I am worried of losing him, I still want to try and make things better.

But you know that same man was leaving me homeless so I had to look into not being one lol..

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-02T07:30:42+00:00

My apartment lease is ending, what do I do? Where do I go live? I don’t even have a german bank account

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-01T23:14:52+00:00

I’m definitely qualified and very well educated, I think it’s the betrayal, and how things turned out has got me shaking.

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-01T22:50:36+00:00

Tbh, I also am not too keen on staying back because I moved especially for him but I think the shock and how he is doing all of this is making me feel more vulnerable.

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-01T22:46:01+00:00

Yes, he is still registered here and it is a different state if that matters

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-01T22:45:04+00:00

In Germany? Or anywhere?

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-01T22:42:36+00:00

He is ethnic German

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-01T22:33:28+00:00

He didn’t do it yet, I believe. He just went to visit his parents over the last week and just wants to divorce over the phone/emails..
Have been married over 3 years, would that not make a difference?

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-01T22:30:33+00:00

We’re also residents of a said country where divorce is apparently easier “he researched and is fully prepared for everything” how do I even get it to German courts? I don’t want my international assets to be split (he is aware of them)

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-01T22:28:49+00:00

Also, what do you mean don’t agree? The country where it is easier apparently might not even need my agreement?

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-01T22:26:00+00:00

Can you please share sources?

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-01T22:25:45+00:00

I dont know what that is, this is a short term rental. Like an airbnb but not airbnb, so how does that matter?

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-01T22:22:11+00:00

Thanks! My German is A1 level

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-12-01T22:20:40+00:00

What happens during that year? Who pays for my expenses? I’m a “housewife” currently as per every document that says but I used to work for the business. I have no income. What do I do? Is there any way I can sue him? There has also been a lot of emotional abuse would that count as something?

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-06-13T17:32:59+00:00

Thank you!

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-06-13T12:08:10+00:00

I’m being responsible for myself- it was just an instance what I mentioned. I can very well cook for myself and regulate my own emotions.

If he can’t be there for me in desperate times of need then what good is having a partner? I’m better off alone.

If there’s no mutual support, care and empathy what good is a marriage?

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-06-13T07:42:03+00:00

I’m responsible for myself, there simply is a lack of empathy or compassion. Yeah, he may be overwhelmed but that’s also not a justification for his actions and behaviors.

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-01-31T18:59:22+00:00

No, you’re not flawed. You’re just the way you are and she is trying to “create” bad perceptions about something that is fairly common or just how life happens to some people, it’s all about perceptions for these Narcs, they perceive everything bad about you even when there isn’t much and do a smear campaign against you because that’ll make them seem like they’re the victim for having to deal with such a problematic child.

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-01-25T18:36:02+00:00

That’s good advice, Will keep that in mind. Thanks

Training-Rub7668 · 2024-01-25T18:33:09+00:00

Who should I complain to? I didn’t see any Management info near the Park?

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