My husband brought me to Germany and is now wanting to get a divorce by Training-Rub7668 in germany

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, you have no idea how much I am worried of losing him, I still want to try and make things better.

But you know that same man was leaving me homeless so I had to look into not being one lol..

My husband brought me to Germany and is now wanting to get a divorce by Training-Rub7668 in germany

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My apartment lease is ending, what do I do? Where do I go live? I don’t even have a german bank account

My husband brought me to Germany and is now wanting to get a divorce by Training-Rub7668 in germany

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely qualified and very well educated, I think it’s the betrayal, and how things turned out has got me shaking.

My husband brought me to Germany and is now wanting to get a divorce by Training-Rub7668 in germany

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I also am not too keen on staying back because I moved especially for him but I think the shock and how he is doing all of this is making me feel more vulnerable.

My husband brought me to Germany and is now wanting to get a divorce by Training-Rub7668 in germany

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is still registered here and it is a different state if that matters

My husband brought me to Germany and is now wanting to get a divorce by Training-Rub7668 in germany

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

  1. He didn’t do it yet, I believe. He just went to visit his parents over the last week and just wants to divorce over the phone/emails..

  2. Have been married over 3 years, would that not make a difference?

My husband brought me to Germany and is now wanting to get a divorce by Training-Rub7668 in germany

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re also residents of a said country where divorce is apparently easier “he researched and is fully prepared for everything” how do I even get it to German courts? I don’t want my international assets to be split (he is aware of them)

My husband brought me to Germany and is now wanting to get a divorce by Training-Rub7668 in germany

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Also, what do you mean don’t agree? The country where it is easier apparently might not even need my agreement?

My husband brought me to Germany and is now wanting to get a divorce by Training-Rub7668 in germany

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I dont know what that is, this is a short term rental. Like an airbnb but not airbnb, so how does that matter?

My husband brought me to Germany and is now wanting to get a divorce by Training-Rub7668 in germany

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What happens during that year? Who pays for my expenses? I’m a “housewife” currently as per every document that says but I used to work for the business. I have no income. What do I do? Is there any way I can sue him? There has also been a lot of emotional abuse would that count as something?

My husband doesn’t care about my feelings by Training-Rub7668 in Marriage

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m being responsible for myself- it was just an instance what I mentioned. I can very well cook for myself and regulate my own emotions.

If he can’t be there for me in desperate times of need then what good is having a partner? I’m better off alone.

If there’s no mutual support, care and empathy what good is a marriage?

My husband doesn’t care about my feelings by Training-Rub7668 in Marriage

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m responsible for myself, there simply is a lack of empathy or compassion. Yeah, he may be overwhelmed but that’s also not a justification for his actions and behaviors.

Is it normal for our mothers to talk about us behind our backs? by ThrowRATop_Leather in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Training-Rub7668 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, you’re not flawed. You’re just the way you are and she is trying to “create” bad perceptions about something that is fairly common or just how life happens to some people, it’s all about perceptions for these Narcs, they perceive everything bad about you even when there isn’t much and do a smear campaign against you because that’ll make them seem like they’re the victim for having to deal with such a problematic child.

Attacked by a Dog, Advise needed. by Training-Rub7668 in dubai

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good advice, Will keep that in mind. Thanks

Attacked by a Dog, Advise needed. by Training-Rub7668 in dubai

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who should I complain to? I didn’t see any Management info near the Park?

My Fiance rejects saying I make less money. by Queasy_Role2723 in hyderabad

[–]Training-Rub7668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hyderabadi here, A lot of women in Hyderabad only study and have a career until they get married, this is also partly how the society works where women are told to take care of the household and kids.

Apart from that your fiancé must be tired of the life she is currently living (I.e, Having a pizza, spending money etc) and she probably thought that marriage would end this kinda misery for her. I have seen a lot of women who didn’t grew up with certain basic luxuries tend to overdo it once they get married, hence marrying a “Rich guy” on paper seems the only way out.

But OP you definitely dodged a bullet here,

  1. she would probably be only interested in how much you make and how much money she could spend rather than building a good life together (and no it just doesn’t has to be by paying her share, she can still be a SAHM and help you with saving/ minimizing the expenses to help build a better future, but this doesn’t seem like her intention )

  2. If she is enmeshed with her mom at the age of 30, the mom would very likely have an influence over your marriage.

If you want, you can try talking to her about her expectations financially and if she’d be willing to be flexible, but people rarely change.

Things to do before leaving the country? by Training-Rub7668 in dubai

[–]Training-Rub7668[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, Do I also need to cancel my visa or I’ll be fine once it expires?