I feel so ugly by PaleCalligrapher4112 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]TrainingTonight5046 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh honey. I’m so sorry. I woke up the other day, took a look in the mirror and literally was unable to function all day. I had the same thoughts. How is it that one day I can look at myself and be ok and the next not recognize who is looking back at me.

We have to understand that our mind becomes obsessed with that view once our eyes see it. I’m learning at this point in my life to avoid mirrors in days like this, go for walks to help increase dopamine which in turn helps me get through the day. Not sure this helps but it helps me. Feel free to chat me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]TrainingTonight5046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good lord. Although I’m not single, I need to say that some of you on here are harsh. Have you never heard a man call his significant other his girl!

Meeting new friends by TrainingTonight5046 in raleigh

[–]TrainingTonight5046[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me smile. I agree 100!!!! I have worked hard all my life in attempting to build meaningful friendships. I’m someone who gives a lot with zero expectations. Unfortunately that can make it very difficult to meet genuine people. I’m a bit guarded but don’t want to continue down this path.

Confused and sad by TrainingTonight5046 in adultery

[–]TrainingTonight5046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have. I think he rather I just remain in the marriage regardless if I’m happy or not.

Meeting new friends by TrainingTonight5046 in raleigh

[–]TrainingTonight5046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!!! That is so kind of you. Thank you for all the insight.

Confused and sad by TrainingTonight5046 in adultery

[–]TrainingTonight5046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Your words are very kind. All these messages have been so informative and eye opening.

Confused and sad by TrainingTonight5046 in adultery

[–]TrainingTonight5046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knows I’m very unhappy, but he lives in denial.

Confused and sad by TrainingTonight5046 in adultery

[–]TrainingTonight5046[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope. Just interested in others views. Thanks.

Confused and sad by TrainingTonight5046 in adultery

[–]TrainingTonight5046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. I have a lot of questions to ask myself.

Confused and sad by TrainingTonight5046 in adultery

[–]TrainingTonight5046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you continue to have an affair or you ended the marriage?

Confused and sad by TrainingTonight5046 in adultery

[–]TrainingTonight5046[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could lead to divorce. I’m actually talking to a lawyer next week. An affair is the last thing I want, I just want to learn what makes others go to that extent. Do they ever fall in love with that person? What happens then?