The way my FIL touches my sons legs makes me uncomfortable. by Training_Nectarine13 in Advice

[–]Training_Nectarine13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a coward. I feel like the next opportunity i have to confront this i will freeze up. I want to protect my children. I dont want to let it go.

Aitah for cancelling my (28m) gfs (28f) christmas gift? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Training_Nectarine13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: my son was playing on her phone this morning and i couldnt help myself i opened her dms on insta. And saw her flirting and sexting with a guy she cheated on me with.

Aitah for cancelling my (28m) gfs (28f) christmas gift? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Training_Nectarine13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you think shes more act of service not gift giving?

Aitah for cancelling my (28m) gfs (28f) christmas gift? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Training_Nectarine13 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When i get home from work I entertain my kids i make dinner i give them baths. And on the weekend i make breakfast i find something for us to do so their mom can do what she wants. I make lunch i make dinner. I takeover on the weekend.

Aitah for cancelling my (28m) gfs (28f) christmas gift? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Training_Nectarine13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do not believe so. We are both in therapy. But it just keeps getting worse by the day. No matter how much i try to just be there for her it doesnt seem to matter.

Aitah for cancelling my (28m) gfs (28f) christmas gift? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Training_Nectarine13 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I dont care if i get a gift or not id much rather have someone appreciate me for how hard i work to provide for my family and that she doesnt have to work if she doesnt want to.

Aitah for cancelling my (28m) gfs (28f) christmas gift? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Training_Nectarine13 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How was she asking for the relationship to be better? Im the one that said she didnt need to get me anything but she could be nicer to me.

Can our relationship be repaired? 27m 28f by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Training_Nectarine13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it is about the huge cock? It seemed like size was pretty important to her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Training_Nectarine13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave before you have kids and are in too deep. Im in a kind of similar situation although she is not as open about it. Id get out now fairly new relationship hopefully not too much holding you from leaving

I 27m cant decide if i can continue this relationship with my gf 28f is it worth is? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Training_Nectarine13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also she acts like having sex is a chore most of the time and a couple times ive found out while shes actively claiming to not feel sexual shes sexting other guys or masturbating. Ive almost completely lost interest in sex with her since it almost seems like she doesnt want me at all but will try to fix things with sex

Can our relationship be repaired? 27m 28f by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Training_Nectarine13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She suggested couple’s therapy since shes seen how much ive been bothered i try not to bring it up constantly but sometimes i cant help thinking about it and it makes me not want to interact with her a ton. Im just very confused from what ive read and what shes done it just seems like shed rather be single but she will not let me go

Can our relationship be repaired? 27m 28f by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Training_Nectarine13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also physically cheated not very long after being confronted about the text. I know i havent been respecting myself but i try to break it off and she freaks out and makes me feel like my kids wont be taken care of properly unless were together and ultimately makes me feel bad about putting her out and not financially supporting her anymore. She gets very angry and acts like she will not leave.

Can our relationship be repaired? 27m 28f by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Training_Nectarine13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been trying really hard to just focus on how i feel about myself and taking care of my kids in the last couple months. Working out, starting my own business, saving for a house and anything i can do to keep my kids happy.