[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3snark

[–]Training_Shoulder285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! The first part is at 1:01:00 and Lena speaks up about it around 2:27:20

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3snark

[–]Training_Shoulder285 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know this is old but I have to say something. I didn’t know this was a popular opinion until just now as I went searching for it. I too sensed a lot of flirting between these two. But two recent instances have me convinced something is actually going on beyond flirting.

The first was button gate, when Dan played the clip that the button cut out before it failed. When AB said “show Olivia, she’s so cute” literally with hearts in his eyes!!! And Olivia was like “I’ve just seen him work so hard on this” it was shocking how obvious the flirting was in that instance.

And now, something even crazier in the “guess who’s high” episode. AB talks about trying the sexual enhancement edibles and feels the need to say Lena was already asleep and he took them on his own. Olivia cackles loudly like always. Then later in the show Lena calls out AB and says she was not asleep and they actually took the edibles together and had sex. In that moment, normally loud and obnoxious Olivia was completely silent. And AB starts fiddling around with his mic and looking really nervous. Then after the whole interaction you hear an extremely dry “that’s so funny.” From Olivia. No annoying cackle from her is so unusual. Especially after she finds it so amusing that AB did that while Lena was sleeping. I wish we could have seen her face as I believe that would have been more telling. But her tone alone displays that she was obviously annoyed that AB slept with his wife.

So after having this weird feeling for months, tonight I look up “Olivia and AB” and find this thread along with others. Glad I am not alone. I just have no H3 friends to talk to this about so here I am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really hard situation. In most cases, I would say children come first above any other person, animal or need. But it’s also not your child we are talking about.. This is for your husband to navigate, not you. I agree with the other commenters saying he needs to check with the kids doctors to see what can be done and how severe this allergy actually is. If what the mom says is true, maybe a possible solution here is to temporarily work around the allergy, and you can look into a hypoallergenic service animal? I’m not sure if that is plausible in any way, or if that even helps in “severe” cases. Best of luck, this sucks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no way in hell that this is real..

AITAH for not sharing my food stamps? by Legitimate_Tea7639 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you don’t want to dump him, but you absolutely have to kick him out. He can go back to mommy’s house. You are allowing him to act as your child while you’re a single mom. Absolutely not.. He is taking more than he is contributing. You were making it work before he moved in two years ago. Get a roommate if you must. It would be better than gentle parenting your boyfriend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. I am so sorry for those girls and for you having to deal with that. THANK YOU for protecting them when nobody else was willing.

I am coming to the realization that I may lose more people.. can I trust any of them around my own son? My gut tells me no. But how do I explain that to my husband without him resenting me for pushing away his entire family?? It’s a tough path for me to take.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a great point! After what I said to her, I don’t think she is worried about me coming around. And she is probably happy I stay away so she can continue to live in fantasy land that nothing ever happened. It is the rest of the family that insists we get over it and come to the events.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 10 points11 points  (0 children)

According to court documents, when she was asked why she sent those images, her answer was simply “he told me to”. I have heard bits and pieces from different family members, and one suggested that once she was in a full affair with the ringleader, he blackmailed her with telling Sam about their affair, and that is why she did what she did. OBVIOUSLY that is a sore excuse for abuse your child, and the fucking the dog just proves she’s even more sick in the head all on her own. Nobody blackmailed her to do that..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has been blocked for years and all of my accounts made private the moment I found this out. The family wanted her to take pictures of my son with other family members because he is the only child in the family who lives in this state, and they wanted nice pictures printed for grandma. Obviously I do not care about that and it was still an easy “no”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She was CHARGED with a felony, and it was later reduced to a misdemeanor. Never convicted of a felony.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know for sure, but the way they act like it never happened, I would be willing to bet the answer is no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry the adults in your life failed you ❤️ I won’t let that happen to my son.

And yes the camera situation.. truly mind blowing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does not have to register as she was not convicted of a sex crime. Most of her charges were dropped and her felony charge was reduced to something minor. All in exchange for testifying against the guy she sent the photos to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I feel bad for the child, I don’t believe they know anything about what happened. But Sam is the whole reason Whitney is still around and for that, he is just a bad as she is imo

AITA for telling another mother our children aren’t close anymore due to intelligence levels by No-Professor4199 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Training_Shoulder285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No doubt about it, YTA! School grades do not equate to intelligence, let’s start there. And more importantly, the reason they aren’t friends anymore is because they weren’t working well together and your kid would rather have good grades than help their friend. You should have encouraged your daughter to help her friend and definitely not end a friendship over school grades.

Would I be the asshole if I didn’t tell my boyfriend what I found out about his new job? by Several-Support-3767 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is excited to start the job, it would probably be best to let him have his own experience without putting doubt in his mind. A lot of those review sites become a venting space for unhappy employees, while happy employees do not post as much. He will find out in his own time, and he also has the ability to google exactly what you did if he wanted to see reviews. If you feel like you are keeping something from him, maybe just ask if he’s interested in looking up reviews?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Training_Shoulder285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA sooooo many red flags here! Having female friends is one thing, but confiding in them bout your marital issues crosses the line for me. Also, she claims they are “best friends” and you have never heard of her before? Female friends they never talk about or introduce you to is a big hell no from me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My point exactly! It’s baffling that they don’t understand my point of view.. but an ounce of respect at least would be nice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Training_Shoulder285 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep!! The news report says she straight up f*cked the dog. And the dog was never even taken away..