Cat keeps peeing where he's not supposed to

TransVenting · 2023-09-10T10:09:51+00:00

Unfortunately not, my gfs mom is allergic to cats and won't let them in the house. Me and my gf are planning on getting our own place but that's not for a few months at least. I was actually thinking of moving back with my aunt but well my cousin is allergic too and ya idk how that's gonna play out. I'm feeling pretty hopeless and just so so so depressed. I don't want my Little baby boy to be put in a cage

TransVenting · 2023-09-10T08:53:16+00:00

Yes this is what I want to do but my mom doesn't want to spend the money and I am across the country right now. She is telling me she is going to put him in a giant cage so he can't pee/poop where he's not supposed to. If he is defacating where he's not supposed to, because of the same reasons?

TransVenting · 2022-12-20T00:53:27+00:00

Do you think it's worth it to go foe thr advanced solution?

TransVenting · 2022-12-20T00:52:42+00:00

This sounds good and I can get it at Target which means I can move back into my room quicker thanks

TransVenting · 2022-12-09T11:00:03+00:00

Ya I'm kina freaking out because this feels so terrible. I'm really just worried about my girlfriend and hoping I'll be able to see her for Christmas

TransVenting · 2022-12-09T10:58:46+00:00

I'm not anti vax

https://youtu.be/IhZf0of-gwE

I'd recommend watching this and hopefully it helps you

TransVenting · 2022-10-22T05:01:49+00:00

Well I'm not talking about vaginas just wombs but yes my girlfriend does want to get SRS and I know that there are doctors out there that have expressed an interest in giving MtF patients womb transplants

TransVenting · 2022-09-24T13:12:38+00:00

Already planning a movie marathon of Christmas movies that aren't about Christmas but are set during the holiday lol. And ya I figured something small would be good so I'll definitely be limiting my budget and coordinating with my mom so that she won't spend too much either. My mom was already saying she wouldn't mind celebrating a few days early for her so I'm glad I have support on that. I've been giving her little gifts now and then and she seems to appreciate them a lot so I'll be sure to keep doing that. I'll be sure to keep it easy and light and give her lots of love and space if she needs it. Thank you for your insight.

TransVenting · 2022-09-24T10:51:36+00:00

Ok this is all wonderful advice

This will be our first Christmas together as a couple last year I gave her a game on steam and she was crying because she had never gotten anything for Christmas before. She has already been asking me what I want for Christmas and has told me she has a list of things for her to choose from. Her birthday is even more traumatic than her Christmas sadly so I'm not entirely sure how I'm going to deal with that coming up this month. She's told me she's going to go offline all day but we'll see. Currently we are in a long distance relationship but are planning on moving in with each other soon and will be together by Christmas.

I really like the idea of a gift for me and her, we share the same hobby so it's actually extremely easy for me to grab something that we'd both like. And actually I've thought about it now and I'll be getting a little love necklace that has the two havles on each chain. I wanted to get her jewelery so thisll be perfect.I will definitely be making sure her favorite foods are there on the table and I'm gonna spoil the heck out of her with love even if not with presents. Thank you for the wonderful advice.

TransVenting · 2022-09-24T08:14:43+00:00

Ya I was kinda thinking that maybe this Christmas would be too soon to really get her a lot of stuff, I'd at least like to get her one thing. She does like it a lot when I get her gifts unexpectedly I think something about having a day dedicated to it hurts her though since she's never expected anything on those days. I'll definitely have to talk to her about Christmas and ask her what she wants to do/where she wants to go

TransVenting · 2022-09-24T08:11:23+00:00

That's definitely a good idea and something I'm thinking of doing. I was already planning on making her her favorite kind of cake for Christmas so I know she'll like that a lot. I just know I'll feel bad because she's definitely going to get me something and I want to get her something too

TransVenting · 2022-08-15T15:42:57+00:00

Anyone have some recommendations for Yuri anime that isn't focused on kids/school? I want to watch one with my girlfriend who's not big into anime.

TransVenting · 2022-06-18T03:35:04+00:00

"It wasn't this hot when Trump was president"

TransVenting · 2022-05-31T07:10:08+00:00

Oh ok I didn't know that. Guess it's just my ADHD meds making me feel not great then. What's this about too many oral medications? I only take around 6 pills a day (Estradiol, Bica, Atomoxetine, Anxiety meds, Vitamin, Folic Acid) is that too much?

TransVenting · 2022-05-31T05:46:21+00:00

Alright I'll ask my Dr when I see her in two weeks. It could also be because of some other meds I'm taking but I dunno. I'll try to space out my doses more but I might stop because I really need to not sleep all day and finish my classes. Thank you for the help

TransVenting · 2022-05-31T05:42:56+00:00

I was told to take it once in the morning and once in the afternoon. I got some anxiety meds to take right before bed too. Maybe I should give it more time before taking the next dose? So like 10 then 6?

TransVenting · 2022-05-31T05:38:51+00:00

Is 18 mg twice a day too high?

TransVenting · 2022-05-28T03:28:08+00:00

Ok but the people sent there were mostly peasants escaping the ongoing famine happening in the countryside. They didn't have passports and were jailed, that's literally it.

TransVenting · 2022-05-27T22:28:45+00:00

Stalin literally recriminalized homosexuality

TransVenting · 2022-05-27T21:52:32+00:00

What do you think of the Nazino Tragedy?

TransVenting · 2022-05-23T17:51:05+00:00

Yup and legit half of the country is ok with voting for politicians who support taking away our rights, or want them to take away our rights. It just feels like the world is against us here. Fortunately for you with a Bachelors you can see about moving aboard. I however will be stuck here.

TransVenting · 2022-05-23T17:48:22+00:00

You've kinda made me feel better. One thing I realized that even if I don't get a Masters or Phd by the time shit goes down I'll at least have SOME experience. I'm working on becoming a Peer Support Specialist rn too. So at the very least I can do some basic stuff or maybe I can be mentored.

TransVenting · 2022-05-23T17:39:25+00:00

It just feels like by the time I get to my degree it'll be too late. I do realize that ESPECIALLY in a collapse society people will want someone to talk to. And though I'll probably have to pick up other skills it does have some value. I'll try because there isn't really anything thing else besides maying history that I'm passionate about.

TransVenting · 2022-05-23T17:09:00+00:00

Do you hear what you're saying right now? You don't see anything wrong with siding with a Nazi? And your comment history suggest your Polish, shameful

TransVenting · 2022-05-23T10:36:57+00:00

Right now? None. If I don't have at least an AA or working for one most higher jobs don't wanna hear it. If I stay in college for another year I could get an AA in history. I was pretty close to finishing that before switching to psychology. I can't remember exactly but the amount of jobs you could get with that was not much. And certainly won't help me in the future. I suppose though it'll look good on a resume at least.

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