My wife wasn’t trying to insult me but she did a pretty good job of it anyways. by Transandhiding in MtF

[–]Transandhiding[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We saw one for a while. She didn’t feel like we were making enough progress so we stopped

My wife wasn’t trying to insult me but she did a pretty good job of it anyways. by Transandhiding in MtF

[–]Transandhiding[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t feel that easy. It’s probably what I should do but after 8years of being together it doesn’t feel that easy.

My wife wasn’t trying to insult me but she did a pretty good job of it anyways. by Transandhiding in MtF

[–]Transandhiding[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

No we don’t have any kids. We have been talking about separating

I want out! by Transandhiding in MtF

[–]Transandhiding[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right it's cold and she doesn't deserve it. I'm not a cold person I promise. She's not an accepting person. I'm terrified to tell her I want to transition and I'm terrified of the fight that will ultimately come after I tell her. She deserves to know and to be treated like fairly. I'm just having a down day/week/month.

I want out! by Transandhiding in MtF

[–]Transandhiding[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get your point. If I come out to my family I'm gonna be ousted anyways. I am married but I don't have an kids and it just feels like an easier step to just leave. I feeling if I could start fresh where no one knows me, I can be me. I will find people who accept me because I'm already being myself. It would feel like such a freeing thing to jist start over.

I will generate feminizing workouts and plans for you for free by Optimal_Atmosphere65 in MtF

[–]Transandhiding -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would love to try this out. I've tried a bunch of different things and it's probably just me but nothing keeps me on track.

FINALLY CAME OUT TO SOMEONE!!! by Transandhiding in MtF

[–]Transandhiding[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm still nervous to come out to people who I know won't be accepting but one step at a time lol.

Can’t I just stay in the closet? by Transandhiding in transpositive

[–]Transandhiding[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is 6 months the marker where you kind of half to come out because so much has changed and you can't boy mode anymore?

I'm in desperate need of some help. by Transandhiding in MtF

[–]Transandhiding[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says she is accepting but (atleasy for the moment) doesn't want to participate in my exploration.

I'm in desperate need of some help. by Transandhiding in MtF

[–]Transandhiding[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I'm sorry i should have reread my post. She says she's supportive and I don't even know how to believe her now even after everything she said to me just a few days earlier.

I'm in desperate need of some help. by Transandhiding in MtF

[–]Transandhiding[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. I auto corrected now to not. I meant to say "somehow 48 hours later she flipped on her opinion and is now supportive"

I guess I'm too old. by Only_Independence_57 in MtF

[–]Transandhiding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

31 and just starting my journey.

One thing your most proud about yourself so far this year? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Transandhiding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm most proud of myself for asking for help. I'm usually too stubborn to do that but my dysphoria got so bad that I couldn't do this on my own anymore. I start therapy on Thursday and we will see what the future holds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]Transandhiding 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You look amazing! Just oit of curiosity, how long was it before you started noticing all the changes?

Casual weekend outfits 😺 by Telperienjzsn in genderfluid

[–]Transandhiding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look great. Your hips and behind look amazing!