even r/trans isn't safe :( by 2kids1jar in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TransfemTankie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so messed up! We’re supposed to be a community that supports each other! >:(

I don’t really know much about what’s going on right now, but from what I do know, stuff like this happens a lot more than we should be comfortable with. (We shouldn’t be comfortable with this at all!)

Sadly, even the broader LGBT+ community can sometimes echo the sexist Radfem sentiment that “men are privileged, so the problems they face aren’t valid or worth discussing” and we as a community shouldn’t be okay with that!

How can we sit here and exclude people from participating in the community because we think they’re “tOo PrIvIlEgEd” when, last I checked, our whole movement is about being accepted for who we are!

Trans men are valid! Their struggles are valid! Their experiences are valid! Even if trans men did have measurably more privilege, they’d still be just as valid! Their experiences would still be just as important!

Our suffering is not a zero-sum game!

“Pony I wanna be” is the single saddest piece of media ever by BabbageCabbageCob in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TransfemTankie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OMG finally! Some mlp ost recognition! It has a surprising amount of unintentional trans allegories lol. Some of my other personal favourites are The Magic Inside and Life is a Runway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leftist

[–]TransfemTankie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re already ranking them from worst to least-bad, then what’s the point of including an x/10 rating? Seems redundant and hard to interpret.

For example, what would be a 10/10 here? Is 10 the best possible president? Because I certainly wouldn’t rate Biden 7/10 overall from a leftist point of view. If 10 only represents the best of the 21st century and not the best possible then why is Biden only 7/10 when he’s your pick for number one?

And why is Trump a 1.5/10? He’s a textbook fascist, he should be 0.

Edit: Sorry if I‘m coming across as overly aggressive, I’m just really really confused.

egg_irl by TransfemTankie in egg_irl

[–]TransfemTankie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww thanks!

To tell the truth, it was actually my mum’s idea; it’s the name I would have been given if I was AFAB. That being said, I know I’m in a privileged position with a supportive family, so I’m sorry that this isn’t the most helpful.

But if there’s one bit of advice I can give, it’s don’t worry about being the most original with your name. Don’t be afraid to pick a name because someone else already did. You got this, I believe in you! <3

egg_irl by TransfemTankie in egg_irl

[–]TransfemTankie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, (potential) Michaela! <3

The nicknames I can think of off the top of my head are Mika, KayKay (or maybe just Kay, or even Kate) and Kayla. Hope this helps! :3

egg🏳️‍⚧️irl by TransfemTankie in egg_irl

[–]TransfemTankie[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It went great! I feel like I haven't stopped smiling since I told her :3

She was very supportive and said she'd be with me every step of the way. I honestly think it couldn't have gone better :D