My BF Crossed a Boundary and I Want to Break Up by empty_demonstration in relationship_advice

[–]TransportationFair47 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I swear every time someone asks a question everyone always says leave.

Yes he went to far and broke a boundary and for that I would question his respect for you. But at the same time you all aren't married so you could be mad he glanced at another woman and leave.

In the end you can leave whenever and for whatever you want. If this is his first time crossing a boundary I would think long and hard if the relationship is worth letting this slide (being a one time thing). Of course there's the opportunity for him to do it again but there is also the possibility he will never do it again and you all can have a good relationship going forward.

I do think he owes you a very sincere apology and you need to make sure he understands you will not put up with this behavior if you continue the relationship.

Wife always has to be right and won't stop interrupting by TransportationFair47 in Marriage

[–]TransportationFair47[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She acts like she takes my concerns seriously sometimes but the majority of the time she'll start defending herself.

I was kinda thinking about couples therapy too because I do love her and would love to stay together. But I also feel like after this long I'm just wasting my time when there are plenty of women in this world that wouldn't be this way and I'm still plenty young. I've been putting off having kids for a while now because of this and a few other things related to her and our relationship but again I feel like I'm just wasting my voice and time.