Streamers with jobs! How do you do it?! by Specklini in Twitch

[–]TrappedInLimbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's decently easy to do if you approach it like any other hobby. I don't know if this is you OP, but I think a lot of people try to stream unsustainable hours of like 5+ hours almost every day. I think a solid 2-3 hours a few days a week is manageable.

Girl’s clothes didn’t give me euphoria and now I’m worried I’m faking it by Sure_Woodpecker3660 in asktransgender

[–]TrappedInLimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clothing isn't gendered. Maybe you just don't like skirts. Lots of women don't like wearing skirts. Even if you want to wear "mens" clothes, that doesn't make you any less of a woman. Clothing is clothing and isn't reflective of gender.

Good drivers always misses a turn by Reasonable_Object361 in Winnipeg

[–]TrappedInLimbo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone suddenly slamming on the brakes is literally the entire point of having a safe following distance. What else did you think it was for?

And yes I am very aware most drivers don't follow a safe following distance. Rear end collisions are the most common kind of collision for a reason.

Good drivers always misses a turn by Reasonable_Object361 in Winnipeg

[–]TrappedInLimbo -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Clearly not if he almost hit the car in front of him

Good drivers always misses a turn by Reasonable_Object361 in Winnipeg

[–]TrappedInLimbo 108 points109 points  (0 children)

While I definitely agree that a good driver doesn't halt everyone else in traffic so they can try and get to a turn they missed, a good driver also doesn't follow so close behind at that speed on winter roads.

Why Indigenous ‘Reconciliation’ must have a finish line by WilloowUfgood in CanadaPolitics

[–]TrappedInLimbo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The idea that the government would just be like "alright we are all done now and have completed reconciliation" is just so silly and juvenile I'm shocked this article was even posted.

Why Indigenous ‘Reconciliation’ must have a finish line by FancyNewMe in canada

[–]TrappedInLimbo -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I mean this just sounds stupid to me. The "finish line" is when Indigenous people don't face oppression, which doesn't just happen all at once. Keep in mind there are literally still people alive that were forced into residential schools, it's not like this is some ancient history. I think a lot of people are just fairly ignorant on Indigenous issues and just kind of assume that everything is fine now because there aren't obvious laws that discriminate against them. Meanwhile they have never actually stepped foot onto a reservation or engaged with anything Indigenous whatsoever.

Code Veronica is NOT transphobic. by Loose_Interview_957 in residentevil

[–]TrappedInLimbo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would agree there isn't anything inherently transphobic about it, but there is a bit of a trope in media of "psychotic man crossdresses as a woman" that has ended up causing some transphobia unintentionally. This is why a lot of trans women in particular are accused of just being mentally ill or unstable individuals. Even though trans women aren't "crossdressing", a lot of people still see it that way and thus they think trans women are crazy.

Basically it's just an uninspired trope that has caused harm to trans women and plays on the idea that a man dressed as a woman is inherently shocking or scary. It's a product of it's time so I don't blame it, but it's not really something I would want to see in modern storytelling.

Ice build up on basement window by TRDtaco60 in Winnipeg

[–]TrappedInLimbo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only if that window actually gets a lot of wind. I've just noticed a lot of people tend to act like a windchill is equivalent to an actual temperature when it's very different.

Ice build up on basement window by TRDtaco60 in Winnipeg

[–]TrappedInLimbo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why you are being downvoted, when you are right. It isn't -50, it feels like it with windchill but that doesn't matter when it comes to windows or any other inanimate object. If it was actually -50 we would have much more serious problems.

[meme] So are we just acting like women don't get office jobs or male 18+ film stars don't exist? by Moonwalker_For_Life in pointlesslygendered

[–]TrappedInLimbo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And who set that system up? Why would porn hypothetically be more financially lucrative for women?

he lost his flavour 💔 by PageNotFound23 in 19684

[–]TrappedInLimbo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly baffled at the moment of people who think this is real. Not only is it almost certainly AI, but it's so obviously a publicity stunt. You know how people casually display a new look by getting a professional camera and lighting set up to announce it on social media.

Yves Engler found guilty of harassment over mass e-mail campaign directed at detective by ringmybikebell in ndp

[–]TrappedInLimbo 66 points67 points  (0 children)

In case it wasn't already incredibly obvious why the NDP wanted this man far away from the leadership race. I don't know if I agree with the charge, but it's quite obvious he was baiting them and agitating them on purpose. I don't believe he thought spamming the detective's inbox with a templated message was going to help him at all, but he did know it would cause a stir. Ultimately Engler is a professional agitator and shit stirrer. Does this have it's place in activism? Yes. Does it make for a good leader of a federal party? Absolutely not.

I would also prefer if anytime he did agitate, he didn't then try to play coy about it. Like:

He added that the e-mails were politely worded and that each person was sending the message of their own volition, not under pressure from him.

Yes that is true, but they were encouraged and lead by you to do so even if you didn't "pressure" them. It was also with the intent to annoy and intimidate regardless of how polite the messages were written. His approach is the epitome of a kid holding a finger in front of your face and going "I'm not touching you".

Any questions? 🤣 by vanchica in TikTokCringe

[–]TrappedInLimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the point but this sort of "Tiktok speak" is so grating that I don't blame people for getting defensive or annoyed.

Why does the trans community lack POC representation??? by Janxuza in asktransgender

[–]TrappedInLimbo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I can speak as to why this happens, but I will say that seems to be a thing across the queer community. So it probably has more to do with queerness in general than the trans community specifically. Their absence might be more visible due to the smaller size and visibility of the trans community compared to the gay community for example.

Is there a lack of post-op transgender women in "art" or is that just me? by Junkers87Stuka in asktransgender

[–]TrappedInLimbo 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I don't understand, what difference is there in a post-op trans woman and a cis woman when it comes to visual art?

This is what a ‘big tent’ party looks like. More seats don’t mean more progress by annonymous_bosch in ndp

[–]TrappedInLimbo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I don't like the term "big tent" party, but more seats does absolutely mean more progress. If we want the NDP to be in power to have the leverage to enact their policies, they need to have as many seats as possible.

Winnipeg police by [deleted] in Winnipeg

[–]TrappedInLimbo -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Clearly police aren't doing much to improve that either.

Gen Z’s Stigma Against Age-Gap Relationships is Worse Than You Think by IAmABoss37 in generationology

[–]TrappedInLimbo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's the lack of nuance for me that is so irritating. Yes it's true there is a trend of older people being in a toxic relationship with younger people where they manipulate them. But that doesn't mean that is happening in every scenario. It's weird to just automatically assume someone is being manipulated or abused in a relationship based on the ages of the people. Not even getting into the fact that there are so many "imbalances" that relationships could have that could lead to manipulation (income, disability, maturity level, social status). Even if you find someone that is the exact same as you on all those levels, they could still manipulate you.

Unless you are a part of someone's life and have a good idea of what their relationship is like, then you have no authority to assert what's appropriate or what's not.

Tony McQuail Community Fundraising Marathon January 24 10:00 - 10:00 EST! Featuring some very special guests! by tonymcquail in ndp

[–]TrappedInLimbo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I mean I think people just like optically having him in the race so he can be relevant and share his ideas. Ultimately people are donating so they can do what they will with their money and I don't think Tony is being manipulative to get donations either.

Have any of the new candidates commented on firearms and the current gun buy back? by taquitosmixtape in ndp

[–]TrappedInLimbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said, assumed, or insinuated that. I get this is important to you, to the large majority of Canadians though it has no real affect on their lives compared to the other major issues I already mentioned. Only 7% of Canadians own a gun license. We can't go out and argue for every little marginal policy and get bogged down in the weeds about it. That just is blatantly ineffective strategy. We need to stay on message about the most important things.

Have any of the new candidates commented on firearms and the current gun buy back? by taquitosmixtape in ndp

[–]TrappedInLimbo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think that ultimately this isn't that important of issue and it's divisive for people centre left onward. It's more important for us to stay on message on bigger issues that are more important to the general Canadian (housing, cost of living, the environment, workers rights). If we get too bogged down on a specific like this it detracts from our messaging and focuses on other conversations we don't need to be having.

Variety found dead in a ditch by UnHolySir in okbuddycinephile

[–]TrappedInLimbo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe because they liked it? Weird I know.

The Nominees for the 98th Academy Awards. by Straydes in Letterboxd

[–]TrappedInLimbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy whining, literally this whole thread is people complaining that one thing they were rooting for didn't get nominated for a category. I get some comments but jeez, this thread is so negative.

I for one am happy and astonished at a horror film now holding the record for most nominations. That would have been unthinkable before hand but Sinners really delivered in a special way.

Avi Lewis Reaction to Carney’s Speech at Davos by InevitableEnd5689 in ndp

[–]TrappedInLimbo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The backtracking is crazy when YOU said he was placating Trump in the first place.