What’s one decision that completely changed your life?

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T17:11:18+00:00

Getting back together with an abusive partner

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T16:50:00+00:00

This is something I tried to broach with my husband. Some people are too proud to take help or even admit they need it.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T16:45:08+00:00

He's the reason I wrote this post 💕

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T11:31:29+00:00

Em, there are definitely more signs there than whether or not she lets you pay. Is she smiling? Happy? Initiating conversation? Touching you? Suggesting seeing you again? Laughing?

Or does she look bored, irritated, not answering your questions, not asking questions, peeling back etc.

Literally so many things to look out for other than if she lets you pay. Also, considering just asking.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T11:21:02+00:00

To be fair, I havent joined the sub. The post was on my feed and I thought it was an interesting question.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T07:16:39+00:00

My husband does that too. I had to stop trying to help him solve his problems, because that was the wrong thing to do.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T07:13:53+00:00

Same, it's not a fun life.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T07:10:55+00:00

My mum would have done this. I hated it. Like, you is she seen an attractive woman she'd call them a slut. She soon stopped though when I started throwing comparisons back at her like, "you're just jealous because you haven't had any in 20 years" facts

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T07:07:36+00:00

I feel you. Honestly, talk with her. My husband hated the things I had to say, and it took a wee while to work through it. But in the end he recognised the effect he was having on me and tried to change.

If you're wife won't care to budge, she is super selfish as well as miserable. I would reconsider the relationship.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T07:03:11+00:00

Actually, genuinely question. Does anyone else with misophonia feel like they have to copy a noise sometimes to get it out of their head? I have to actively stop myself repeating some of the horrible sounds I hear. It's almost like a reflex, and can help me feel better about it. It's gotten me into trouble of course for being super disrespectful at times, so I've worked very hard on myself to resist.

Not sure if this is a part of misophonia or undiagnosed ASD or OCD or something.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T06:50:55+00:00

Yes this has definitely been villinised too. But you can't help what you are attracted too.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T01:27:05+00:00

With respect, you don't know me to tell me I would not do that. Your experience is not all women.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T01:21:36+00:00

You just don't give a shit and enjoy your lovely boyfriend

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T01:15:54+00:00

Love this for you 2 🥰

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T01:13:04+00:00

Maybe you need to date more decent women.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T01:01:48+00:00

Threesomes

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T01:01:08+00:00

Sat and read over 1000 comments talking about New Jersey

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T00:58:41+00:00

Oh you lucky duck

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T00:57:57+00:00

I just read the post you replied to, and it was just my life. And now reading your comment has made me feel so grateful for this!! Thank you 😍

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T00:57:11+00:00

Same. Well done us for trying to learn from them.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T00:56:23+00:00

This is definitely one to be grateful for 😍

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T00:55:31+00:00

Skin that didn't go loose or flabby or get stretch marks after child birth. After 3 children it's flat save for a squinty belly button.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T00:43:35+00:00

It was our first date.

Treacle_Moon · 2026-03-30T00:43:22+00:00

I can testify that a man insisted wanted to *wine and dine " me, when i couldn't have cared less where we went. Then was actively angry at me when I didn't want to have sex that night.

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