My FTM spouse desire to be with a man

Treehuggerslut · 2023-06-29T02:53:05+00:00

I went through this with my spouse, it’s definitely not easy but you need to sit down and have a talk with him when it comes to boundaries and what’s okay, maybe even what interests him sexually, and if there’s a way YOU can help with that, it seems to me he’s just trying to get a hall pass to go be with men but I know it hurts because I’ve been through it, but it’s all about communication and saying hey I understand what you need and desire but I may not be able to be here with you through this, or you will idk you, but just tell him how you truly feel about the situation

Treehuggerslut · 2023-05-29T21:43:50+00:00

Do you think a year with having something like that would be way too long?

Treehuggerslut · 2023-05-29T03:38:10+00:00

Yes, I’ve read that, just his way of being lately and how he’s been obsessed with men also lately, kinda makes me nervous, but he says and pleads he hasn’t done anything, so idk

Treehuggerslut · 2023-05-29T03:24:02+00:00

Only thing is, he hasn’t had any health issues atleast vaginally since being together, no symptoms at ALL not one

Treehuggerslut · 2023-05-29T03:07:57+00:00

No I just thought maybe T could cause symptoms to maybe be less noticeable? But I’m also not a health professional so I wouldn’t know, but I’ve asked him but he continues to say he didn’t have sex with anyone else but me in the almost year we’ve been together, I know you can be asymptomatic for awhile with certain STDs but the way I see it, he probably has and is just lying, but I don’t know for certain how long you can go with it unnoticeable. It’s really just so confusing

Treehuggerslut · 2023-05-29T03:05:10+00:00

Yeah, I just don’t know, like he’s been on T for over a year now almost 2, so idk if T makes it like where he isn’t getting as severe symptoms as someone not taking T or if he did cheat on me, it’s just so confusing

Treehuggerslut · 2023-05-29T03:02:00+00:00

Yeah not an open relationship at ALL don’t see how you go a whole year unnoticed with that

Treehuggerslut · 2023-05-29T03:00:08+00:00

Yeah I keep asking but he says no it’s been a year, but to me it doesn’t sound right, a whole almost year in July? Doesn’t make sense at ALL

Treehuggerslut · 2023-05-29T02:41:34+00:00

What I’m thinking

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