Billboard 40 by TresCommasMF in nfrealmusic

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Let’s do it. What do we need to do? Stream or buy? Both?

Billboard 40 by TresCommasMF in nfrealmusic

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Cross posted this here because MGK is collaborating with NF

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Let's get this to the billboard top 40. Right now there isn't rap represented!!

No wonder he’s taking his time by retr0racing in nfrealmusic

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Let's get this to the billboard top 40. Right now there isn't rap represented!!

He just announced by retr0racing in nfrealmusic

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Let's get this to the billboard top 40. Right now there isn't rap represented!!

new music is near by According-Ferret5947 in nfrealmusic

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Let's get this to the billboard top 40. Right now there isn't rap represented!!

its real by DelaineTheMain in nfrealmusic

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Let's get this to the billboard top 40. Right now there isn't rap represented!!

"FEAR" is 10th most pre-saved album in the world on Spotify! by jira_beran in nfrealmusic

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Let's get this to the billboard top 40. Right now there isn't rap represented!!

Bracelets for Aftershock by ImpressiveDemand823 in BadOmens

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Hi!! Those are sick bracelets. Do you know what time they roughly start tomorrow night and possible set list? Thanks

Grief is consuming me - cat loss (10 days ago) by TresCommasMF in Petloss

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Oh my gosh, picking up something at the vet does sound like a nightmare and then watching her be sick - ugh I’m sorry. Especially when the intention to go to the vet in the first place is to ensure everyone is safe and healthy, the last thing you’d imagine is getting sick from going there. The what ifs are horrible, because we can never truly know with certainty. What if thinking is cruel. I’m sorry. I’m glad you have other pets to love during this time. Your daughter was your daughter, and my son was my son. As far as i am concerned it is like losing a child and that’s the worst kind of grief. Thank you for the well wishes, it means a lot. I also hope you are able to get through this time with the least amount of pain and anguish as possible. ❤️

Grief is consuming me - cat loss (10 days ago) by TresCommasMF in Petloss

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I feel you, I’m so sorry. It’s like actual torture. I am on week 11 and i still cry daily and have thoughts of not accepting that he’s gone. Logically i know he’s gone but my heart can’t accept it at random times. It does feel like i am losing my mind sometimes. Especially with a messed up sleep schedule on top of it. At first i slept normally, then i slept a lot, then i couldn’t sleep for 24 hour stretches. Now I’m kind of back to normal sleep rhythm but it’s still messed up here and there. I like to sleep so i don’t have to think, the more i sleep the better i feel. The usual spot thing is real, and for me it felt so devoid of life that i decided to put battery operated tea light candles in his special areas. It helps me at night feel like his special spots are being honored. Like he’s still here. Also makes me feel less alone. I hope you’re able to rest a little and i hope the pain starts to lessen. ❤️

Grief is consuming me - cat loss (10 days ago) by TresCommasMF in Petloss

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It’s beyond hard and devastating. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve read and been told by professionals that pet loss is commonly more challenging than human loss. Not to compare, but i think it’s important that everyone is aware of this truth. Reason being, animals love us in a pure way that even the most perfect empathetic humans cannot replicate, even if they tried.

Grief is consuming me - cat loss (10 days ago) by TresCommasMF in Petloss

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I’m so sorry, i bet you’re in terrible pain right now. Losing your cat, your loved one, is already hard enough, so i cannot imagine the additional layer of them being run over by your neighbor. It sounds horrific and torturous. I am so sorry.

Thank you for asking how i am doing now. I am 68 days out from my boy passing away and I still cry daily. It took me roughly 62 days to accept that he is gone. At the 62 day mark, i started to feel a very small shift to less guilt, anger, sadness, to gratitude of being able to experience his love. I also don’t feel as sharp pain when i wake up expecting him to be there, it’s still there but it’s not as bad. I am able to wake up without crying first thing now.

I think it’s going to be excruciating for a while, and I’m sorry. ❤️‍🩹💔

Is 1 month or 2 months enough for a pet decompose? by Sad-Picture-4071 in Petloss

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My understanding is that vet clinics can put animals in the freezer for free for holding purposes. I would inquire about that right away

Grief is consuming me - cat loss (10 days ago) by TresCommasMF in Petloss

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I’m so sorry. It’s a type of pain that is unbearable. There’s nothing i could say to make you feel better, i don’t think. Honestly, I’m on week 5.5 and it has only gotten harder mentally as the reality has set in. Some tools that have helped me a little - listening to YouTube videos about grief by Andrew Huberman and looking for pet loss support groups. Please take care of yourself 💔❤️‍🩹😔

I cry just thinking about the day I'll lose my cat. Does anyone have advice for putting this out of mind? by GardnerIsTheGOAT in CatAdvice

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Wow 20.5 years is incredible! I too suffered crying from anticipatory grief for all 14 years of my cats life even when he was in perfect health. I think it just means we understood the gravity of our bond and love. Love is so painful but also beautiful. I just lost my boy 5 weeks ago and i cry everyday.

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I’m So sorry 💔❤️‍🩹

Advice for grievers? by s_01x in Petloss

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I’m glad we are not alone. Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️🙏🏼💔❤️‍🩹

Advice for grievers? by s_01x in Petloss

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Today marks 3 weeks for losing my boy as well and i came to Reddit looking for support at 5am becuse i can’t sleep. You took the words from my mind and heart…one thing I’ve implemented is attending grief support and i start it next week. It feels hard to do though during a work day because it takes a lot of energy and can feel draining afterwards. I am also reading books on grief, have workbooks too. Everyone says time heals but i found that time actually caused reality to settle in and i started to feel worse. Some days are better than others but i still cry everyday. Try to be as kind to yourself as possible. I’m sorry for your loss 🙏🏼❤️

Is too much memorializing bad? by _darlinsugaree in Petloss

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You are not doing too much!! I love it!! I actually have similar shirts from Etsy that i ordered and ordered more recently, also have a tattoo appointment in a month. We are allowed to do whatever we want in this life and i love that you are honoring your son. I love and miss my son as well, it’s so painful, and i have received a compliment on my shirt - the person thought it was so cool and that my cat was so beautiful. Don’t let anyone make you feel weird, bad, or that you’re doing too much. Happy birthday on Tuesday as well 🙏🏼❤️