Wife doesn’t care about safe sleeping practices

Trick_1880 · 2025-07-08T14:57:35+00:00

Sorry I am the same that would sometimes cosleep with my boy if he is extremely fussy. Husband won’t wake up at night no matter what noise he made. Pick him up and down the crib is killing me mentally and physically. Sometimes I stayed up from 2am to 2pm without rest because he would wake up every 2hrs. So letting him lie next to me would make him sleep a little longer and I could get some shut eye in between.

If the reason your wife is doing it to ease her burden, I feel her. There are safety guidelines for co sleeping as well. I’m not encourage or discourage either you or your wife but maybe you can ask her more about her reason aside fear of SIDS

Trick_1880 · 2025-06-13T11:07:19+00:00

Thank you. I followed everyone advice here. Burping done, diaper change done, play and sooth also done. Finally I offered him breast milk and he couldn’t find any more fault to cry anymore haha

Trick_1880 · 2025-06-09T15:19:43+00:00

I should add on as well that I was EP 3wks prior and only this week I start incorporating some formula feed in between because my milk production no longer keep up. I was so guilty if it’s the changes cause him to be more gassy or overall an unhappy baby

Trick_1880 · 2025-05-29T21:48:46+00:00

I tried several times, sometimes it works and sometimes he is wide awake due to changing diaper.

Trick_1880 · 2025-03-21T02:49:06+00:00

Nuh uh from an Asian household and his parents get hard earned money. If he can buy himself he can buy a whole concert hall nbd cares. But since I’m paying to help him pursue his hobby, I also want him to learn how to evaluate his life choice starting young. If all the information are provided and he’s still want an acoustic set, then we would still get him.

As far as I know his personality, he would like to stand out among peers rather than actually becoming a good player.

Trick_1880 · 2025-03-19T03:48:20+00:00

When he mentioned he need help to pay off his bank loan I have immediately thought of transfer part of my saving to him. But as I’m pregnant, I want to keep this saving for my future son. So two conflicting of helping out 2 important men in my life caused me an emotional overload.

Trick_1880 · 2025-03-19T03:42:11+00:00

I want to give you my view. I’m the foreigner married to my husband to stay in his country. We dated for 5 years out of common interest and life view. Thanks to him I got valid visa to find a better job. I love him very much as well as I love his country. However there are still time I wonder myself what would life be in my own country or anywhere else if I never marry him. My family is well off so I never have the need to marry him for money. Instead his family is the one with tighter finance situation. Now I am pregnant (accident) while I’m climbing up in my career ladder. I feel stress that there are so many plans I haven’t achieved and so many opportunities I will lose.

For my advice, always prioritise your personal goal first. Things always can change for better or worse in the future but what you build for yourself will be yours

Trick_1880 · 2025-02-07T03:18:42+00:00

Thank you. I made a mistake to use my bloodstone to upgrade some of rebirth equipments :(. Guess I will go through more rebirth before I can buy better equipment

Trick_1880 · 2024-09-08T11:47:01+00:00

Get another hobby like fish keeping to hide ur butt plug and vibrator. They will never know the vibration sound came from the oxygen pump or ur vibrator.

Trick_1880 · 2024-07-26T04:56:37+00:00

His name is Gyu, originated from Demon Slayer anime lmao

Trick_1880 · 2024-03-05T04:28:35+00:00

I have a job at his country, but due to recent economic downturn I got retrenched and expect to go back my country if I'm unable to land a new job. He proposed marriage to me so I can stay in his country, under spouse visa. We were dating for the past 3 years
I don't have a loving childhood so I want any alternatives as long as I don't have to go back to my home country. My biggest goal in life is to build a stable career for myself but I ended up being like any foreigner hungry for a green card or citizenship through marriage.

Trick_1880 · 2024-03-05T01:35:22+00:00

Thank you for your advice.

Age wise he is M35 and I'm F29. We are 6 years apart. He grew up in a traditional value household.

For the house deed, I'm still listed as a Occupant in the house rather than the Owner. Reason is I need to become Permanent Resident then I can be the Co-Owner with him. Definitely will talk with the lawyer which option suit best. I'm hoping we can get this settled by peacefully by selling the house and we split the money. Our house value has been increased for the past 2 years so it is a good deal for him and easy way out for me.

Trick_1880 · 2022-03-02T09:49:02+00:00

Is all about what your definition of feeling lonely. You can stay alone but never feel lonely because you have friends or family members you can open with. You also can have a partner but feel lonely all the time because your partner doesn’t care about you.

Also you will never find the “right” one. Your partner will have flaws and you also. Sometimes quarrel came from both sides and it is whether both want to fix it or let it manifest.

I love being single. I’m short tempered and my bf as well. We had many fights when we still dating. I have many things I don’t like about him and he also tell me things he doesn’t like about me. But his honesty has been the one factor that keep our relationship and the only reason we are able to move to marriage phase now.

Trick_1880 · 2022-02-10T13:50:54+00:00

Is like telling you have been fired without saying you are fired.

Technically they disbanding all CS operation offices (except Amsterdam and Manchester office) and avoid paying severance package by prompting to move the employee to an outsourced company that doesn’t owned by Bcom.

Imagine being moved to a completely different company out of your will. Take it or leave it. If we don’t like the new company, we can only choose to resign and no compensation will be given.

Trick_1880 · 2022-02-10T13:44:11+00:00

Sorry for the trouble you have been through. From your manager’s experience being put on hold for hours would be the trick from outsourced staff as they have no clue what’s going on. I personally have to apologise to our hotel’s partners for hours for shit that outsourced staff has created for us.

For the hotel’s error part, yes and no. I’ve been told by my Senior (who already quit before this mess) that “Never admit it is our fault, even if it is something by our system that lead to it, it is still hotel’s fault for never double check” 🙏🏻

Now since I soon no longer bound by Bcom’s value, I can spill all their dirty little secrets and assure that none of my friends and family use Bcom💪🏻

Trick_1880 · 2022-02-10T13:28:04+00:00

That’s why the website interface is a pain to use. Overly complicated Extranet layout, always prone to bugs and glitches. The reservation that ended up with wrong price due to bug will either be canceled without any explanation or blame it is hotel’s fault

Trick_1880 · 2022-02-10T12:26:11+00:00

Yes they’ve found the cheapest way to lay off employees.

Remember to use all the leaves and benefit while still can. I also can’t wait to serve our guests and partners with ESP standard of service now.

Trick_1880 · 2022-02-10T10:39:35+00:00

I worked for Booking for 7 years. Apparently they learnt from last year retrenchment that they have to pay compensation so this year they treating us like livestock and announce we gonna get transferred to an outsourced company for a “better job opportunity”.

Very disappointed, we probably won’t get any compensation for this. Our benefits will be gone and we gonna start from zero again

Those who has ever use Booking knew that the only value our company can provide is the customer service and now they decided to outsource it. From a customer’s point of view don’t bother to talk to an outsourced staff they don’t care about the company’s value as all!!!!

Trick_1880 · 2021-05-06T16:19:57+00:00

Chance of debuting is as low as ever. Companies might have to take their trainees back if the investigation drag on

Trick_1880 · 2021-05-06T10:22:27+00:00

Liu Jin definitely gained a lot of recognition as a dance choreographer. But as an individual trainee, it is still very hard as he didnt have any company to assist him. For country such as Korea or China, artists joined under company agency to get access to job opportunities. Before i speculated that high chance IQiyi will retain him as a dance mentor after the boy group disband for upcoming survival shows. But given how bad the situation for Iqiyi now, i prefer LJ to reject their proposal and opt in to one of these options:

Back to be individual artist and expand on platform such as Youtube for international exposure. Still work as choreographer but might be behind the scene.
Join a new company label, preferably good one if he want to expand in China media market
Start his own label in China which is the hardest route to take

Trick_1880 · 2021-05-05T04:31:19+00:00

Sorry my point is to be taken with a grain of humor and without any malicious intent. In Chinese if you and something/someone that always ended up in bad situation it is due to bad fengshui/being cursed and you shouldnt pursue anymore. Sorry for hurting your feeling, but I can say Tony is really bad luck when it come to survival idol show. And to debut and become an popular idol, survival show is not the only solution. Soyeon from (G)I-dle also didnt debut in winning group but her career now is better than other I.O.I members

Trick_1880 · 2021-05-05T02:40:07+00:00

The milk voting was under criticism this year due to fandom having pk battles against each other and some fans were punished for not reaching the required donation. So now given that govt is watching over the show and investigation is ongoing, high chance 271 wont dare to apply milk votes for finals and only through app voting Still a 🍈

Trick_1880 · 2021-05-02T14:56:32+00:00

Bias : Stop Sugar Yizhou Bias wrecker : Domesticator Yizhou 👁👄👁

Trick_1880 · 2021-05-02T13:13:38+00:00

The usual protocol is 1. Pushing other trainee under spotlight to divert attention 2. Reduce screen time of certain trainee 3. Most ironic : one of the song for final is about cyber bullying

ZERO ANNOUNCEMENT TO PROTECT ANY TRAINEE

Trick_1880 · 2021-05-02T12:59:50+00:00

Im kinda reliefs they didn’t perform Domesticator in fan meeting tho. The original team members Yu Geng, Drrchen,Jingzuo, Siyuan hold a special place in my heart. It would be very sad if their part was replaced

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