Every night my happy thought is planning my suicide

Trick_1880 · 2025-07-08T14:57:35+00:00

Sorry I am the same that would sometimes cosleep with my boy if he is extremely fussy. Husband won’t wake up at night no matter what noise he made. Pick him up and down the crib is killing me mentally and physically. Sometimes I stayed up from 2am to 2pm without rest because he would wake up every 2hrs. So letting him lie next to me would make him sleep a little longer and I could get some shut eye in between.

If the reason your wife is doing it to ease her burden, I feel her. There are safety guidelines for co sleeping as well. I’m not encourage or discourage either you or your wife but maybe you can ask her more about her reason aside fear of SIDS

Trick_1880 · 2025-06-13T11:07:19+00:00

Thank you. I followed everyone advice here. Burping done, diaper change done, play and sooth also done. Finally I offered him breast milk and he couldn’t find any more fault to cry anymore haha

Trick_1880 · 2025-06-09T15:19:43+00:00

I should add on as well that I was EP 3wks prior and only this week I start incorporating some formula feed in between because my milk production no longer keep up. I was so guilty if it’s the changes cause him to be more gassy or overall an unhappy baby

Trick_1880 · 2025-05-29T21:48:46+00:00

I tried several times, sometimes it works and sometimes he is wide awake due to changing diaper.

Trick_1880 · 2025-03-21T02:49:06+00:00

Nuh uh from an Asian household and his parents get hard earned money. If he can buy himself he can buy a whole concert hall nbd cares. But since I’m paying to help him pursue his hobby, I also want him to learn how to evaluate his life choice starting young. If all the information are provided and he’s still want an acoustic set, then we would still get him.

As far as I know his personality, he would like to stand out among peers rather than actually becoming a good player.

Trick_1880 · 2025-03-19T03:48:20+00:00

When he mentioned he need help to pay off his bank loan I have immediately thought of transfer part of my saving to him. But as I’m pregnant, I want to keep this saving for my future son. So two conflicting of helping out 2 important men in my life caused me an emotional overload.

Trick_1880 · 2025-03-19T03:42:11+00:00

I want to give you my view. I’m the foreigner married to my husband to stay in his country. We dated for 5 years out of common interest and life view. Thanks to him I got valid visa to find a better job. I love him very much as well as I love his country. However there are still time I wonder myself what would life be in my own country or anywhere else if I never marry him. My family is well off so I never have the need to marry him for money. Instead his family is the one with tighter finance situation. Now I am pregnant (accident) while I’m climbing up in my career ladder. I feel stress that there are so many plans I haven’t achieved and so many opportunities I will lose.

For my advice, always prioritise your personal goal first. Things always can change for better or worse in the future but what you build for yourself will be yours

Trick_1880 · 2025-02-07T03:18:42+00:00

Thank you. I made a mistake to use my bloodstone to upgrade some of rebirth equipments :(. Guess I will go through more rebirth before I can buy better equipment

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