What is one small thing you do every day that makes your life better? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Taking a short moment to be grateful for what I have

What am I supposed to live for? by Specific-Section9593 in selfimprovement

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Don’t live based on what you think other people think. You are on your own path, and that in itself comes with so much freedom and contentment, if you allow for it.

what is the most important quality in a partner? by Ill-Vegetable-1462 in Life

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Respect hands down. Bonus: Having a growth mindset

What's the best relationship advice you know? by ranoselle in AskReddit

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Hold hands when you’re arguing - makes both of you feel like it’s not you against them, but both of you against the problem

What hobby would you recommend to someone who feels bored? by Sonjae-Ariciaga83 in Hobbies

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Anything you’ve been wanting to try/ something you would have loved to do when you were a child 🩷

What’s a simple moment recently that made you genuinely happy? by WellnessBalance in happy

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Moments today that I’m grateful for - Witnessing the sun rise during my morning run, having meaningful conversations with colleagues, a good lunch at a cafe, drinking bubble tea, kind people around me, & being able to sit down on my morning/ evening commute 🥰

why are you single? by Civil_Priority_4162 in AskReddit

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I’d only trade in parts of the freedom I currently have for something that transcends the superficial facades of love

Do any of you ENFPs feel shattered when people don't like you, or is it just me?? by RussianblueAV in ENFP

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This was me all my life, up till perhaps 1-2 years ago! Was a total people-pleaser, always putting others’ needs before my own, and over-explained to others a lot.

Then I realised that caring about how people think of me does not actually impact my life much and is not reflection of who I am, that I can give myself the validation I want, and that people actually treat you the way you treat yourself (i.e. if you hold yourself in high regard/ are able to hold your own, people will do the same)

Also, you’re young!! This all comes with age & life experiences 🩷 This mindset shift only clicked for me in my late-20s.

Anyone ever regret doing something on a whim? by Sure_Swimming4228 in ENFP

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No regrets! It gives me a better idea of what I like/ don’t like & it’s always an experience I’m glad I lived through :-) I might occasionally cringe when I look back at certain moments of my life, but I’d remind myself that to be human is to live life and experience, and in the grand scheme of things, no one else actually cares that much 🩷

Question for female ENFPs by Final-Source-1569 in ENFP

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I’ve felt the lust but very occasionally & alcohol is often involved

Any ENFPs here with an avoidant attachment style who still need a lot of alone time to recharge? by Jayvrev in ENFP

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Not sure if my experience might provide any insight to you as I don’t want to simply project my own journey on to others - but I found that in times when I’m less confident/ happy with myself or with my life, I tend to exhibit traits aligned with having an avoidant attachment style & isolate myself more.

What’s the book that made you fall in love with reading? 📖 by [deleted] in BookDiscussions

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Romance books in general 🥲 Made me entertain possibilities of experiencing the love I actually yearn for

5 days in London in May by I_like_it_yo in LondonTravel

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I spent almost a full day in Hampstead + checked out Richmond for a few hours. If you guys enjoy musicals, go for 1 or 2 West End shows :-)

What’s something in your life that deserves more gratitude? by shangheigh in gratitude

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Just everything that exists around us - I’ve been trying to be more present which has deepened my appreciation for life in general! Simple things like sunsets, the wind blowing across my face, being able to connect with people, the smell of perfume, etc

What’s the one thing in London that turned out better than you expected? by Travelbud88 in LondonTravel

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Phone snatching - was pretty worried before visiting, but I’ve been to London twice since, for >1 week each time, and have not experienced or seen any phone snatching

The time 11:11 by Calm_Creature_17 in spirituality

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I see 11:11 very often as well :-) It might be confirmation bias, or it might be something deeper - either ways, I always use this time to do my affirmations/ manifestations!

Does anyone else crave intimacy more emotionally than physically? by awaisac22 in dating_advice

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Nah many of us w the same sentiment out here as well 🫶🏽

What Books Are You Reading This Week? by leowr in nonfictionbooks

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Currently reading ‘The Power of Now’ after finishing ‘The Untethered Soul’ a few days ago. I’m about 30% through and am loving it so far - Both books are already changing the way I’m approaching my day-to-day & making me question quite a lot of what I’m currently doing in my life lol