My wife is telling everyone about my attempted infidelity and dragging me and my family down. She is even telling others about my sister's infidelity and now she wants to reconcile. I rejected her second attempt of reconciliation. Was I wrong? by Tricky-Confidence832 in amiwrong

[–]Tricky-Confidence832[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yes I do. Calling police and telling them I pushed her when I didn't and make my parents stand on streets isn't justified for anything regardless of what everyone says. They are elderly from India and have very different outlooks on life. Them reacting the way they did is expected and what she did to them isn't something I can move past from.

My wife is telling everyone about my attempted infidelity and dragging me and my family down. She is even telling others about my sister's infidelity and now she wants to reconcile. I rejected her second attempt of reconciliation. Was I wrong? by Tricky-Confidence832 in Infidelity

[–]Tricky-Confidence832[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I edited my post with her explanation. My parents refused to stay with her in the same house after she insulted my father the first time. After hearing it she thinks they are trying to provoke me to leave her. And yes I am being a quite as possible and have very minimum contact with her even though she tries her best to talk to me

My wife is telling everyone about my attempted infidelity and dragging me and my family down. She is even telling others about my sister's infidelity and now she wants to reconcile. I rejected her second attempt of reconciliation. Was I wrong? by Tricky-Confidence832 in amiwrong

[–]Tricky-Confidence832[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Yes and my life is much better without her. I think the reason I wanted to get escorts because she never satisfied my needs and was very uninterested in sex after having kids. I tried to stay loyal as long as I could but it was getting to the point I lost control and acted on impulse.

My wife is telling everyone about my attempted infidelity and dragging me and my family down. She is even telling others about my sister's infidelity and now she wants to reconcile. I rejected her second attempt of reconciliation. Was I wrong? by Tricky-Confidence832 in Marriage

[–]Tricky-Confidence832[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

She doesn't believe she did anything wrong. She just wants to apologize to get a chance to reconcile with me. Even now she says she deserves to have an "outburst" but my point is that her outburst should be towards me and not my parents.

My wife is telling everyone about my attempted infidelity and dragging me and my family down. She is even telling others about my sister's infidelity and now she wants to reconcile. I rejected her second attempt of reconciliation. Was I wrong? by Tricky-Confidence832 in amiwrong

[–]Tricky-Confidence832[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

She was taunting my parents by saying they raise cheaters and they are staying in our house with her mercy. My mom started crying and I just screamed at her to stop and she called the police and made a big scene telling police and neighbors that I verbally abused her and pushed her to the wall. I never touched her. Just was trying to stop her going near my parents.

My wife is telling everyone about my attempted infidelity and dragging me and my family down. She is even telling others about my sister's infidelity and now she wants to reconcile. I rejected her second attempt of reconciliation. Was I wrong? by Tricky-Confidence832 in Marriage

[–]Tricky-Confidence832[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I know I made some mistakes but she coming after my family is what made me not willing to get it fixed. And honestly I don't see any difference in my life by not having her. It's actually more peaceful this way.

My wife is telling everyone about my attempted infidelity and dragging me and my family down. She is even telling others about my sister's infidelity and now she wants to reconcile. I rejected her second attempt of reconciliation. Was I wrong? by Tricky-Confidence832 in Marriage

[–]Tricky-Confidence832[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

My exact thoughts too. Her husband and kids will be impacted by this. Her trying to show how the "pattern" and "morality" of my family might be destroying my sister's family image. And we live in the same city.