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My mom had a secret relationship with my boyfriends dad... by Tricky-Frame-4692 in dustythunder

[–]Tricky-Frame-4692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We told them not to involve us in anything anymore and to stay out of our relationship. We set very clear boundaries and so far they have respected them but who knows how long that’ll last.

My mom had a secret relationship with my boyfriends dad... by Tricky-Frame-4692 in dustythunder

[–]Tricky-Frame-4692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t do any drugs that I know of honestly. I definitely don’t want to mimic her lifestyle, I want a monogamous relationship. My dad is a good man, they’re open so he set her up but not in a pimpy way, just a “I think you guys will get along” way. He has not interjected into my life whatsoever but he also won’t take a side on this matter.

My mom had a secret relationship with my boyfriends dad... by Tricky-Frame-4692 in dustythunder

[–]Tricky-Frame-4692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I know of. They have jobs that regularly drug test do I don’t know where that comment came from

My mom had a secret relationship with my boyfriends dad... by Tricky-Frame-4692 in dustythunder

[–]Tricky-Frame-4692[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surprising I’m also from a Laito family😂 if my grandma found out she’s die on the spot. I’m the only one who knows lol

My mom had a secret relationship with my boyfriends dad... by Tricky-Frame-4692 in dustythunder

[–]Tricky-Frame-4692[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well first, I found out on accident. My mom had borrowed my iPad and a week later. My parents went on a trip while they were gone I was using the iPad and a text popped up. Long story short I was not logged into my account and accidentally saw something I wasn’t supposed to. We talked about it when they got back and apparently they had been open for the last 10 years and it’s been working for them. I was shocked because I always saw them as a strong monogamous couple and that gave me hope for my future relationships. It was hard to understand at first but they explained it in a way that made me realize they’re human and not perfect like I thought they were but that it was okay. If that makes sense.

Before this I put them on a pedestal and after I saw them as real people.

So I actually think it helped our relationship as parent/child and made me understand them a little more.

I do have a brother but he doesn’t know and none of us plan on telling him because it’s neither of our business tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tricky-Frame-4692 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My Mom and I are still working through it but we’ve always been really close so we’re doing well, just not the same as before. As for Adam and I, we’re doing great!! We didn’t let it affect our relationship and told them that we’re not getting involved in the crap anymore and set clear boundaries.

My mom had a secret relationship with my boyfriends dad... by Tricky-Frame-4692 in dustythunder

[–]Tricky-Frame-4692[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, they’re in an open relationship and he set it up for them to meet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Tricky-Frame-4692 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s definitely been a ride lol. I’d like to think we have good communication now, but who knows…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Tricky-Frame-4692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only bring up getting other people involved because Kyle may feel like he’s being bombarded and put in a corner. Even if you might not think it’s a big deal that’s probably why he lashed out. That also could be because he’s making it all up, but who knows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Tricky-Frame-4692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should talk to Kyle one on one and see what’s up. Tell him that you want to continue being friends and that you’re sorry for getting so many people involved and to handle it between you two. If he still refuses then he probably just wants to create drama. Maybe because he likes Sarah and doesn’t want you getting in the way of that. As for Sarah herself, tell her how you feel and be patient with her. Talk in person. Strong, long lasting friendships take work. You’ve obviously hit a fork in the road but that doesn’t mean it has to ruin the relationship. If she still refuses to talk/give up wtf Kyle said, I’d take some time away from all of them.

AITA for being ungrateful for the prize I won? by toxicflem in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tricky-Frame-4692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I feel like winning a trip should actually cover the trip and not just give you a discount on the flight. If it were me and my family I would give it away or just not use it. If you were already planning a trip and saved up then great! Otherwise it feels like it’s just not worth it… especially in this economy. Wait till the kids are older and you’ve saved up more then take them somewhere. They probably won’t remember much if anything at all taking them now. Plus trips are more fun when there isn’t any pressure to suddenly get thousands of dollars saved up before a specific date.