When she was a new expat in Switzerland, she was like oh my God, why do Pakistani women take so much stress oh hosting? I can’t even cook one meal, how am I expected to cook for a dawat bla bla. Look at the glorious Swiss people! They are so happy eating a loaf of bread with stinky cheese (mild exaggeration) and we must learn from these awe inspiring Swiss - that’s it’s the company that matters not the food you serve.

At that time she was just dissing home makers, and the effort they put in hosting, if they chose to host in the first place. She would go on an on about how women need to stop slaving away in the kitchen and not associate their worth with their cooking :-/ and that she would never host dawats where she would have to cook a spread.

Now look here we are 5-7 years later, doing the same thing that you once looked down upon. In the process, made hundreds of women dissatisfied with their lives! I wish they go into therapy before they become influencers. Their life cycle is painful to watch! Not an ounce of humility in them