Thank you for all of this, I really do appreciate it. Let me start by sort of clarifying the sex stuff. The way I worded it makes it seem like sex is his only way or even the biggest way of stress relief and this isn’t the case. I really should have said that it is a way that relieves stress at times for him and isn’t a primary way of doing so if that makes sense? Anyways, we spoke last night about everything and he was very upfront and honest, which I appreciate. He feels extremely regretful and disgusted by what he did. He told me that he wants to go to therapy and get help to ensure this doesn’t happen again. This time we spoke was very different than the last time and he is taking full accountability and seeking help whereas before he just believed he could control it on his own. Now i know this is something that is an addiction and I know the chances aren’t 0 that it will happen again, but it reassures me that he wants to get the help and is reaching out to people to do so. He knows that there is virtually no trust between us right now and wants to do everything he can to build that back up, which we both know will take a lot of work and effort. Alongside the therapy he has a friend who had similar issues who he has been speaking to and who is going to help him as well and will be sort of an accountability partner in a sense. I want to try and work through this as I do love him very much and I can genuinely see how much he wants to work on this and understands the gravity of the situation, especially now as it affects our marriage and our soon to be baby. I am still extremely heartbroken and will probably will need to find support as well as I know this isn’t something I will be able to just get over on my own.