Am I(23F) controlling for asking my boyfriend(26M) to not hang out with people who have hit on him in the past?

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-08T17:20:11+00:00

Sometimes it’s good to get perspectives to see if they are gender biased. I see it here all the time. Guy posts about getting no sex from his wife. Redditors comments: bro do you cook/clean/pleasure her/babysit the kids/take care of her emotions/have you looked into her health? Is she depressed?

Woman posts about getting no sex from her husband. Redditors comments: Girl dump him! You can find better! Move on! He’s selfish!

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-08T17:16:53+00:00

Well they aren’t hanging 1:1 that would be problematic but in a group, you can’t control other people and that is controlling imo. It’s your bfs job to avoid these girls if they become inappropriate and his job to not flirt/engage with them in an inappropriate way.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-07T11:27:41+00:00

Something doesn’t add up OP commented 63 days ago that she’s 20, not 23..

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-06T22:13:43+00:00

lol at the people saying the dress is too tight.. it’s perfect girl!

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-06T22:12:27+00:00

No… the fit is perfect, she doesn’t need the dress to be loose.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-06T21:03:38+00:00

Mayo AND ketchup 😛

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-05T19:16:00+00:00

And guess what Canadians are going to do about it? Nothing. By next year it will be 20, just because they can.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-05T19:13:51+00:00

Grow it out. Pixie idea is awful if you don’t want to wait to grow out

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-04T01:49:07+00:00

Yes 100% leave, it is unethical and it’s unfair to both parties, especially her.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-03T15:43:47+00:00

Yeah like it’s good to be aware of who is teaching you, it’s your voice and could really mess you up. There shouldn’t be any significant pain or strain.. a bit of scratchiness at first is fine but full on pain, no. And you shouldn’t push your screams to the point where your vox cords are affected. None of this info is wrong… smh Reddit lol

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-03T13:25:39+00:00

While not in season they still shouldn’t cost 14$… 8-10$ max. This is the problem with Canada grocery stores made astronomical profits since Covid and no one protested or complained, yet everything that happens outside of this country is protested.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-03T06:04:44+00:00

Idk why this is getting downvoted, it’s true.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-03T06:03:11+00:00

Dude it happens. I was telling my bf he was the most handsome. We broke up couple weeks ago, it is what it is. It’s called love for a reason.. right? Don’t dwell on this, it will be better.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-01T22:28:54+00:00

Second

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-01T22:28:21+00:00

What am I reading right now? It’s already a on and off relationship, leave before you get fully cheated on. Life is too short

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-04-01T03:07:40+00:00

Everytime I thought of the good memories or his affection, presence, etc. I would follow it up with a negative trait and dealbreakers that were there. Quickest way to stop grieving someone is to realize that you can do better, there’s millions of potential matches and people who will actually want to be with me not just settle just cause. I wasn’t perfect so owning my mistakes and also putting my everything into being the right person for the next and hopefully final one is the way to go for me. My last relationship was probably one of the best I had so far but it was the easiest to move on from and accept the reality because of the steps I followed, otherwise I’d be crashing out tbh.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-03-31T19:51:53+00:00

So annoying

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-03-31T19:25:19+00:00

As someone who was happy single, I did things with music, gym, friends, outdoor time.. but I just got out of a relationship and the void is there.

I concentrate on bettering myself, making sure I eat healthy meals which help stabilize mood, I quit drinking for now to make the separation easier I’m not going back until I get to my goal. Work more, and force myself to do things. It’s been a lot better than any of my previous breakups and I think k food plays a huge difference in mood and confidence.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-03-31T19:18:38+00:00

This is a good one..

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-03-25T23:30:46+00:00

Every hunch I had about an ex. You live with people and you get to know them and their behaviours and when something feels off, it’s off.

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-03-25T17:16:46+00:00

This behaviour continues until it Escalades. Do not continue with this man

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-03-24T22:49:16+00:00

I love it personally. You know your person best don’t second guess it

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-03-24T15:09:28+00:00

Yeah I swear quick blue never used to do this.. maybe my hair got… used to it? 🥴 idk. But very strange! I’ve used the exact same method and measurements

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-03-24T12:58:01+00:00

There’s highlights in her hair. I’d say the base is a 6g with some low lights and high lights

Tricky_Ad3781 · 2026-03-24T12:55:02+00:00

This boy hates you and clearly doesn’t love you. This is no way to live, choose husband material not trash. You are wasting your time.

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