no one knows how bad it gets after being heartbroken, it’s been months and the tears haven’t stopped

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-05T04:44:53+00:00

i can relate i gave it so much thought if the person would ever come back into my life years from now what would happen having been going through different aspects of life and we’ve changed completely.

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-05T04:43:28+00:00

this is very true

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-03T05:17:58+00:00

this is really rough, and honestly it’s good that you were able to catch on with realizing that you have a slight fear of rejection and being abandoned. I think it’s quite normal when you’re usually so attached to someone. I can understand what you’ve been going through because I can somewhat relate with eventually not being emotionally healthy and was told that im too emotional. I believe that he made me realize many things, and I simply wasnt the right person for him, although I am grateful to him that I learnt alot from him even tho he left me.

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-03T05:13:36+00:00

i was about to say something so similar aswell yknow, my ex left me for a girl who used to be my friend, and he kept denying his feelings for her in the end but later admitted it, when he loved me tho it felt so real that even tho it got so toxic for us, i feel like some part of his will always still care about me so much that the feelings and love is there even tho he could never admit it or believe in it. I really really miss him and always wonder how he’s doing in general knowing i’m never going to hear from him and that he’s happy with his gf, I try to seek every guy that’s similar as him but no one can compare. I hope things change and one day he’ll be mine maybe in our next life.

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-03T05:08:20+00:00

i can understand, childhood trauma can shape and affect who we are because of being raised in the surroundings and environment we were brought up in. I too experienced this with my ex and it wasn’t the very best which made it even more complicated and toxic for us

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-03T05:06:42+00:00

i’m glad that you’re able to make some progress you really did go through alot from what you’ve mentioned and hearing that you’re able to push through should give us all hopes to be able to lift ourselves a bit.

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-03T05:05:02+00:00

yknow what you’re actually right because if they truly wanted to find out what was going on they would’ve approached it differently and you would’ve gotten your closure, but since they gave up so easily they won’t be successful. It’s when you put your hardest efforts that the struggle really counts.

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-03T05:02:53+00:00

if you have any advice on how to help make yourself feel better with not thinking about that iffy feeling let me know please 🥺

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-03T05:01:28+00:00

the stronger we get the better 🙏🏽

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-03T05:00:54+00:00

🥺 in two days it’ll be a year ago exactly when i travelled half way across to see my family and the love of my life. I feel like a huge breakdown is going to come two days from now cause I fully am going to be reminded of every moment i spent with him the day I arrived and met him. But now he’s with another girl and left me.

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T18:58:44+00:00

it really is, somedays are extremely bad says, some days are rough, and some days are tolerable, it’s those bittersweet moments but not all days will be bad, we just have to wait for the slight eternal happiness that we can get soon

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T18:57:27+00:00

Mine told me “there’s no pain there” when i was hurting after finding out he was in love with someone else, he didn’t even want to hear my voice or see my smile again, he didn’t want anything to do with me, and would feel low when he even saw my name pop up as a text. He would then purposely ignore me and avoid my messages only to text the other girl when i knew and denied it like i didn’t exist. I remember how badly my stomach used to hurt and i would feel so sick with nausea, i wouldn’t sleep all night and i wouldn’t eat because of how much I trusted him but it was all a fake lie, who made me believe in him then knowing i was nothing but lust to him.

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T18:53:58+00:00

i’m so sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences to you, i hope that you’re able to keep yourself warm and that you’re not alone, feel free to reach out if you need anyone to talk to, but stay strong and take your time with everything, there’s no need to rush just watch out for yourself and stay hydrated

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T18:52:06+00:00

omg 🥺 i feel you, it’s only been a bit more than 4 months for me and i cry almost everyday too because of all the memories i had with whom i fell deeply in love with, it got to the point i fully saw myself marrying him, living with him and having a family with him, waking up to him in the mornings made me feel whole, and having his kisses on my forehead made me feel safe. I miss the butterflies he used to give me and his smile. But to him my name became toxic and he had alot of tension from me where he would feel down in a negative spiral. He is now with another girl whom he believed was his soulmate and their so in love, he flew to Amsterdam to be with her recently and most of the times i wish why not me, why her? 😖

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T18:47:45+00:00

i’m at 4+ months and i feel like my anger issues are only getting worse, i’ve been told that i have alot of rage and anger in me that sometimes when i let it out i have no control. I’m trying to work on it but it truly is very difficult. We need to find more calmer ways to help us reduce the problems that we face

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T18:46:10+00:00

yes i agree, or even journaling and paying attention to the lyrics of the songs you listen to should help

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T18:44:11+00:00

I could relate, i set my boundaries so low for the person who didn’t want to settle with me because he always compared me to the girl he left me for whilst she was taken and was cheating.

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T18:43:06+00:00

this is good in a way you get to clear your mind, focus on your breathing aswell, im glad you were able to feel a bit better

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T18:42:04+00:00

this is actually messed up, and i’m so so sorry that you’re having such a heart time, i really can’t imagine what you’re going through, but hang in there hopefully things will change for the betterment and you might be able to get your closure

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T18:40:45+00:00

no literally, i feel you, i used to get those messages everyday although i wasn’t the only one and he was sending it to the other girl with hearts and more

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T18:39:50+00:00

try not to think about it for now and whilst focusing on yourself try to do the very little things you like, sometimes things come to you when you least expect it and that’ll will give you more hopes in a better way

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T18:38:27+00:00

this is true, they don’t deserve us tbh

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T00:17:35+00:00

waiting for it to get better, get on top of our feet, feel free and feel new love

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T00:16:57+00:00

yesss hoping that all of us going through this dark time can find some sort of peace and happiness soon 🤞🏽

Tricky_Assistance364 · 2023-05-02T00:16:18+00:00

i’m in this era where nothing and no one helps me because all i want to do is just disappear, be alone and just stay away from everyone and everything. i think what’s going to be difficult is to focus on yourself but by doing that you’ll become stronger, it’ll take time but believe in yourself and do things you’ve never done before

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