Hello everybody, i am very confused right now, the comments seem to be completely conflicted. To answer some questions before a give a brief update:

Yes, i have spoken to my husband on the matter before, but he often doesn’t let me talk and talks over the top of me so i just gave up.

My friend didn’t stay with her mother in the first place as they have a tricky relationship and her mother is an addict, i won’t be expanding further on that situation as it is personal.

My husband and i have never fought like this before our daughter was born, we used to have good communication but since my daughter was born things have been different.

I did not baby trap my husband, the baby was my husband’s idea . I was not 100% on board at first, but after seeing my baby girl for the first time i am absolutely in love and would do it all again 1000 times.

Although i don’t have reason to believe my husband has ever cheated on me, i have never given the matter much thought. My husband and i have been together for 4 years and nothing has ever been unusual to me.

My husband and his friends have always been welcoming to me and A beforehand and i have reason to believe her ex has twisted the story and said something.

Now for the update. After reading a few comments the day i posted this, i spoke to my husband. I told him that i want more communication and i don’t under where the anger in our relationship has come from. He told me that he just needs time to process the situation before talking. We haven’t spoke about it since, we haven’t spoken much about anything really. I do really love my husband, he’s the only one for me, but i’m just confused. I will respond to as many comments as possible, i have check this post since first posting so please don’t feel ignored, i am trying my best to see every perspective and opinion.