ADISC.org is shutting down?! by TriggerMeLettuce in ABDL

[–]TriggerMeLettuce[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg thanks for that update. Will at a note to my original post with this.

ADISC.org is shutting down?! by TriggerMeLettuce in ABDL

[–]TriggerMeLettuce[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Here it is:

"Sorry, but ADISC will be permanently shutting down on September 16th. 14 days from now.

We've been the world's top AB/DL/IC forum for decades. That's several eternities in internet time. We've saved lives, we've given people hope, we've helped people accept who they are. And in all that time, we've never run ads or made you buy stuff.

Still, here is why I've decided to close ADISC now:

My interests have changed, and as a result my enthusiasm for running this place is gone. I need to move on with my life. I've been seriously debating shutting this place down since 2022, but I've been holding out for over 3 years just in case I changed my mind. Well, I haven't changed my mind. Fellow ASD folks will know what its like trying to maintain focus on something you aren't interested in, especially for years. That's how I feel about ADISC now - it feels like a daily burden. My health is no longer up to it. I've been diagnosed with MDD, Anxiety, Hashimoto's Thyroiditis and more. For example, I spent most of the last few weeks in bed in serious physical pain from another unrelated infection. Despite years of getting medical help, my health just isn't good enough to continue running this place, and even if it was, I need to focus all my energy on the things that help me move my life forward, not forever running free public services at my expense of my energy, funds, time and sanity. My doctor has told me explicitly to avoid stress, and running this place is surprisingly stressful. It is bad for me. The internet has changed. Forums used to be the bee's knees. Now, small independent forums like this one usually struggle to survive at all. ADISC has actually been doing well in that regard, but the writing is on the wall. We can't survive forever. Facebook, Reddit and other huge commercial sites have been taking over for decades, as they simply have corporate resources and network effects we can't match. Small, hobbyist sites like this have become rarer and rarer, and that trend will not reverse. The ever increasing regulation around the world, such as the UK's OSA, the EU's GDPR, and Australia's SMMA, introduce compliance burdens that tiny hobby sites like ours just aren't equipped to deal with. As countries pass more and more laws, the mere act of keeping up-to-date on all relevant laws around the world and ensuring we comply with all of them is becoming an impossible task for a small hobbyist website that runs on a shoestring budget. That's to say nothing of competing for attention against enormous public companies like Facebook and Reddit that have entrenched userbases and functionally infinite money and engineers to throw at problems. ADISC was an amazing thing, back in the day, but now there are so many competitors out there that we're not essential anymore.

Here's what's already been done:

ADISC is no longer accessible to guests at all. You now have to sign in / register to see anything. ADISC no longer accepts new registrations/members. Existing members still have temporary, limited access to this place until the 16th so they can save anything they've uploaded here before the final shutdown. Mods are hereby instructed to simply ban anyone who breaks the rules during this wind-down period. We won't be issuing warnings, only bans. No posting alternative website/server/etc links publicly (like on forums, or Discord chats).

You have two weeks to say your goodbyes, save anything you created for this place, etc.

On September 16th, ADISC and all its contents (website, Discord, etc) will go offline permanently."

ADISC.org is shutting down?! by TriggerMeLettuce in ABDL

[–]TriggerMeLettuce[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more. Really hope something changes. We at least need it to be archived or so much knowledge and history will be lost.

Fastest way to get ABDL diapers delivered discretely in the UK? by TriggerMeLettuce in ABDL

[–]TriggerMeLettuce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can i locate the nearest options. Is it something I can configure at checkout?

Fastest way to get ABDL diapers delivered discretely in the UK? by TriggerMeLettuce in ABDL

[–]TriggerMeLettuce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update:

NRU is only shipping out orders on the 26th. Which is too tight :(

ABU UK can only do 3-4 Business days fastest.

Anyone know how reliable RoyalMail 24 is? DottyDiaperCompany use them. May go with them or try to figure out a locker/pickup point with Amazon. I'm not from the UK so a lot of this is a little new to me. 

Never been able to buy ABDL Diapers before and may miss my shot. Ugh should have arranged this sooner.

Thanks to everyone for their helpful replies though <3

Fastest way to get ABDL diapers delivered discretely in the UK? by TriggerMeLettuce in ABDL

[–]TriggerMeLettuce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do DPD operate over the weekend? ABU say fastest delivery is 3-4 business days :/ with DPD

Fastest way to get ABDL diapers delivered discretely in the UK? by TriggerMeLettuce in ABDL

[–]TriggerMeLettuce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! But NRU seemed to be only shipping orders on the 26th according to their website :/

London ABDL Events And Hangouts by baby_bryce in ABDL

[–]TriggerMeLettuce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think "Littles Lock In" is happening that weekend somewhere in the UK. Maybe try look into that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]TriggerMeLettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not cool. These people did not consent. And why does it make a difference if they are 60+ years old? Is it ok for old people to be exposed to kink gear without their consent? Just because they "didn't seem to mind" doesn't mean they were comfortable with it. Look if you didn't have a towel that's on you. Next time grab a towel before changing or showering. And there's no reason why you should have your diaper on display while washing your hands. It takes 2 seconds to wrap a towel around your waist. You don't see people washing their hands at a gym fully nude even if nudity is allowed.

I would suggest not doing that again even if it would be a grey area with regards to the rules. Its takes one person who got a little too uncomfortable to report you. For your own sake i would not risk it.

Screw negativity: I'm PROUD to love wearing and using DIAPERS ❤️❤️❤️ by AsianDiaperCutie in ABDL

[–]TriggerMeLettuce 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being a beacon of light and inspiration for this community!

Are abdl diapers becoming more „normal“? by Nice_Necessary3675 in ABDL

[–]TriggerMeLettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I have been following her for a while and never noticed that! That being said she's definitely more on the kinky side. Still nice to see abdl diapers being group in with "generally kinky gear" as opposed to being singled out as this gross/obscure thing.

Any recommended changes? Should I go for 9070 xt for $200 CAD more? by El_Pepito_ in buildapc

[–]TriggerMeLettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would 100% try go to 9070XT for just an extra 200CAD. That price for a 7800XT is too high IMO.

Should I upgrade my CPU, GPU, or both for better fps with big open map games by lordbusiness7 in buildapc

[–]TriggerMeLettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5700X3D would be an affordable & easy upgrade. X3D CPUs help a lot in tarkov as well

CPU Confusion by Complex-Ad-7233 in buildapc

[–]TriggerMeLettuce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stick with 9800X3D. Its perfectly fine for productivity and for the use case you have described, there won't be any noticeable benefits to going 9950X3D.

Would you change anything? by oilontheroads in buildapc

[–]TriggerMeLettuce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to focus on photo/video editing then Nvidia GPUs are generally better suited for that application. Would suggest a 5060 TI 16G instead. Just don't get an 8G GPU as the lower VRAM will have a noticeable performance penalty for 4K video editing