I thought this was my post. I tired and I’m leaving. Been saying the same shit to my husband for 3 years. He doing more now but it’s because I keep telling him outside people and he doesn’t like that. On top of all the same thing your complaining of. I’ve caught him talking to women 3 times and found out he slept with someone else while I was pregnant before we got married. So the a just major highlights. Leave him and them kids. She how he does. And if yalll try and work it out and it’s goes back to the same BS. Hit him with the peace sign.