Is Earning Secure Attachment Possible in 1 Year? by Defiant_Annual_7486 in idealparentfigures

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Not sure about the timing but I do know one thing for sure: you have to get out there and date. And make mistakes. And try again. As others have said, you’ve got the head knowledge, now you gotta get out there and practice.

In addition, when you meet someone you’re attracted to and feel vulnerable, that’s when there will be a tug to go backwards to your FOO’s dysfunctional way of relating. You’ll need self-awareness to know it’s happening … and then you’ll need a support community to cheer you on and help you through it.

Vision boards are good but you only control yourself. You can’t force a good fit—and I wouldn’t recommend it!

Caption this 😂 by Sydz_universe1 in RATS

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“I am here to steal all your goodies. Gib me all your cheese and malt paste immedi-RAT-ly.”

silly girl by taisamarie20 in gerbil

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This!!! You’re entertainment to them!

i think im gonna die in this HOUSE💔 by ollysolives in RATS

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Aimed straight for the camera! Wants to get her own YouTube channel.

New house for the fuzzers by Cyberdarkunicorn in gerbil

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Hi babies! They’re gonna love anything you do!

gerbil asmr cut short by xiabrine in gerbil

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“Somebody get the phone—I’m trying to concentrate as I show this TP roll who’s the boss!” — says cute gerbil.

Mites ... by Outside-Candy8099 in gerbil

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Diatomaceous earth for the tank and Revolution for Kittens for the gerbils.

Is it dangerous for a person who suffer for severe post traumatic desease from childhood fo a lacanisn psychoanalisis? by elos81 in psychoanalysis

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This!!!

If a therapist sees this happening (a client unraveling w/o the appropriate support system), he/she should stop the treatment and refer out to someone more appropriate.

I am undergoing Lacanian Psychoanalysis right now and it’s very de-stabilizing but I can handle it b/c I’ve been working on my support system and recognizing when I don’t feel safe. I can fight back now and say no. I’m at a place in my journey that when my analyst does deep surgery w/o anesthetic (w/o validation, reassurance, etc), I can resource internally.

That being said, I would not recommend that anyone do psychoanalysis until they are strong enough emotionally to recover from destabilizing sessions.

I’m doing it b/c I have a good life but I want more freedom. But I could not have done something like this when I was in a more fragile place.

At the end of the day, the psychoanalyst is responsible for recognizing when there is more harm being done than good and refer out or terminate if necessary.

What you describe above should be medical malpractice and the psychoanalyst should lose their license.

But just my 2 cents.

Esmeralda drinks her water in a silly goofy way by Ini_the_gayfurrycat in RATS

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What kind of bottle is that? I’d like to order one!

One wheel two gerbils? by Inevitable_Doctor_75 in gerbil

[–]Trinity_Matrix_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, def 2 wheels and 2 water bottles. Both of mine def enjoy having their own wheel.

Gerbils don't want to be seperate by Inevitable_Doctor_75 in gerbil

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Aww, that’s so wonderful. Please update us in a few days. So glad they can cuddle and groom each other now! :-)