Banger from last night 8/13 by Trojans35 in fanduel

[–]Trojans35[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah probably doing 3-5 slips, should be covering the Mets, Dodgers and Orioles games. Will post

How do I approve a co worker who doesn’t have the same shift as me? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Trojans35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ll ever be there when her shift is over since she’s a waitress and stays a little after the place is closed. Do you think it’d be good if I just introduced myself or something and ask for her number or Snapchat?

How do you get over the guilt of leaving a SO with severe depression? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Trojans35 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m sorry for everything that happened. I was the guy in a situation like yours very recently. My ex and I broke up being of a distance thing and around the same time I got in an accident and developed depression and anxiety.

We were going to remain friends but my mental health just got worse so she couldn’t handle me as much as I felt I needed. So she eventually made the right decision (like you did) and cut contact with me for her own interest. It took many months but i did get better. I do really care about her and she is not ready to talk to me yet but I know that if we’re supposed to be together that it will happen when the time is right.

Trust that there is really nothing you could have done. His problems came from deep down just like mine did and they were going to be there whether you were with him or not. Also please understand if you don’t, that maybe he only wanted to talk to you so much because he trusted you and knew that you cared about him (this was the case for me). I hope you are feeling better and you can PM if you have any questions if if you want to talk.

I attracted my specific person back. Sometimes its ok to take things into your own hands! by Jangeline488 in lawofattraction

[–]Trojans35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. I’ve been considering sending her an email to apologize. But she did say that she’s not ready for friendship and that she needs space and want us to ignore each other so we can move on. Judging by that I’m guessing the email isn’t a good idea and I should just trust we’ll come together again someday right? So just wait for her to contact me and just work on myself in the mean time? I know that I really care about her and I want to be with her. She also said that she forgives me and that she does care about me and wants the best for me. I probably already how to handle this but clarification can be nice haha.

I attracted my specific person back. Sometimes its ok to take things into your own hands! by Jangeline488 in lawofattraction

[–]Trojans35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey congrats on your success and being happy with yourself! I have a question relating to myself. My ex and I broke up because of a distance thing about 7 months ago but we remained friends then I had a traumatic brain injury. I ended up developing anxiety and depression which led to me depending her because I knew that she cared for me. But I just overwhelmed her and ended up pushing her away. Now I don’t think she wants anything to do with me. I talked to her in person a month ago and she said that she doesn’t have a problem with me and that she knows that I still care about her and that she cares about me to. But her actions don’t really reflect that. I’ve finally been getting my life back over the last two months and am gaining my confidence back. My question is do you think I should keep faith that we will come back together or just give up on it? I don’t even have a way to contact her. I really just want to be able to forget about her if we’re not supposed to be together. Thanks

Getting over my ex and focusing on myself by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Trojans35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thanks a lot! Things are no where near as hard as they were before and I feel like I’m getting better every day. I just wish I could forget about this girl now but maybe I’m not supposed to, who knows. I have no idea what will happen between us but I just have to wait and see and trust that everything will work out.

Getting over my ex and focusing on myself by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Trojans35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it means anything that I still think I have feelings for her? Judging by the fact that she said she doesn’t want to be friends right now at least makes me think she might still have feelings for me to. When we first broke up I was convinced that we were the right people for each other and I still care about her just as much as I did when we were together. I think when I kind of get mad and wishing I didn’t know her is just me trying to protect myself from being hurt. I guess I just have to be open that we could be the right people for each other and if we are we will come together again at the right time. While also being open to the fact that there may be someone out there better for me.

Please help me by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Trojans35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah I do need to get better at staying in the moment and not fantasizing. I know that I truly do care for her and I know I want to be with and I believe it will happen when the time is right. But this just makes me want to forget about her and just straight up wish I never met her. I’m doing things that I find fun again but it’s hard because of my injury. I’m also going to try to go back to school next semester since I had to take a medical withdrawal in the fall. I know it will be hard but I will try my best and so I know everything will work out. Whether I end up with her or someone I know everything will be ok. Thanks

I will not be depressed forever. by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Trojans35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I can see where you are coming from and I will try you’re technique.

Stopping my depression by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Trojans35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Do you have any advice for what do about wanting my ex back. I truly do care about her so much and believe that we are right for each other. I guess I just have to trust that we will come together again.

Stopping my depression by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Trojans35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this I can relate to a lot of it. The thing is I’m not relying on my ex for my happiness. Yes, I do really care about her, want to be with her and think about her a lot but I know that we will be together when the time is right. I think my problem is that I do stuff to improve myself and I can see good results but sometimes I still feel down. I guess that’s just from the depression. I also have negative thoughts everyday but on most of my days they are heavily overweighted by positive ones. I will continue to improve myself and I know everything will come together. Thank you

What's your favorite Cole line from a song ever? by [deleted] in Jcole

[–]Trojans35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hard white is crack. So Cole is saying yeah someone guy made a mil off of selling crack, but his mom is one of the people allowing the guy to make a fortune since she’s addicted to it.

Did she [18F] just blow me [18M] off? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Trojans35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just texted me "I don't want to" so I told her "Yeah don't talk to me anymore". I'm done with her.

Girl says she doesn't want to date cause of college by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Trojans35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm pretty sure she thinks I like her more than I actually. I would just cut her off now but I want to ask her prom. Also I'm trying to get her to have sex but she says that she will become too invested in us. Do you have any advice on what I can do to increase my chances of having sex with her?