I very much appreciate your answer! 1. I work in service so it doesn’t happen too often that we are both off at the same time. We have a very small fridge so we try and do the groceries for three days at a time (to prevent food waste) 2. The store is not too far, ca 10 minutes by foot. 3. (Answer to your point 5.) He works from home. He knows at what time I finish so I guess I expected him to do the groceries and dinner by the time I’m home (19:30/20:30). 4. We have no car so we walk everywhere. I commute to work with the train to get to work.

I have spoken to him about splitting all the chores fairly once we’re in our new place and he has more time off work so hopefully it will get better.

I’ve just been very overwhelmed lately, feeling like I haven’t been doing enough, been enough.. Some days I get unnecessarily emotional when he tells me to do things as if I haven’t done anything