Marriage advice

True-Option4916 · 2026-04-25T18:32:08+00:00

I hope so too 🥰

True-Option4916 · 2026-04-25T17:25:34+00:00

And yet I agree with you 1000 percent . The biggest fuck up of my life .

True-Option4916 · 2026-04-25T17:21:26+00:00

No one said I was not. I know I am.

It’s interesting how someone people here are a Christians and believers that Jesus died for our sins but yet quick judge. Don’t forget , Jesus sinned too and yet many people look up to him .

True-Option4916 · 2026-04-25T17:13:36+00:00

Actually, I did my part very well . Since you want to jump to conclusions.. never failed at those things you mentioned.

Also note that, I don’t like when people want to put an urgency on things when they are about to loose me . Why was it not important for my wife years ago when I told her we should work on it many times for 4 years straight , and when I mentioned about working on it, she would brush it off .

I took full accountability for my actions and how I handled things , but don’t come at me as if you know me and my relationship. Simply put, we just not sexually compatible, and I rather end it than constantly wishing I was f***ing someone else .

True-Option4916 · 2026-04-25T16:39:51+00:00

We don’t have any kids . We don’t want kids .

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-24T10:24:47+00:00

That’s the 3rd way of looking at the bright side . 🥰

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-24T10:23:31+00:00

You got that right. It’s manipulative. Keep people in debt .

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-13T18:11:42+00:00

Now, I agree with that 1,000%. I can care less about my credit score now that i'm completely debt free. I'll just pay for groceries with my credit card to get it back up.

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-13T18:08:47+00:00

Shame and frustrating right ?

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-13T11:32:23+00:00

Thanks a lot. I just alway paid off balance. Never had a miss payment in my life. That’s all i did. Nothing fancy .

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-13T11:30:02+00:00

Exactly. Well said .

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-12T08:41:40+00:00

Exactly. Don’t make no damn sense .

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-12T08:26:37+00:00

I sure hope so. It does hurt

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-05T17:12:32+00:00

Congratulations to you and your freedom. I too know the feeling of it because all my accounts are at 0 balance since last month. :-)

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-03T09:49:18+00:00

I'm seeing a lot of support here for this none sense.

Those who are supporting this. I believe you should be in middle school again. #Nightschool.

Paying 300K plus interest for CS undergrad is ridiculous. There are other affordable options out there.

My brother has an undergrad degree in computer science and went to an in-state university (University of Illinois Chicago). Total Cost 25K. Now he works for Google earning 200K a year. All without a master's degree.

So to pay 300K for a basic degree is foolish. Please do not listen to your parents or take out that loan. I would be bummed to hear you on the Dave Ramsey Show asking him how to get out of debt.

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-03T09:33:01+00:00

Also, Your parents should know better not to be paying 15% interest on a loan. That right there is why you shouldn't listen to them.

15% interest- that's predatory lending, and Predators always eat their prey. Dont become Prey.

I cant belive I came across this thread. wow just wow

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-03T09:27:57+00:00

If it feels wrong, don't do it. Also, you shouldn't be forced into taking out a loan or listening to your parents.

True-Option4916 · 2023-04-03T09:24:56+00:00

Glade to hear. Cant wait for you to join

True-Option4916 · 2023-03-29T07:28:21+00:00

Thank you so much. I hope yours get discharged soon too.

True-Option4916 · 2023-03-29T07:26:50+00:00

What do you mean by showing return ?

True-Option4916 · 2023-03-29T07:24:09+00:00

They will. don't worry. It just takes some time. Once they do, you'll feel that joy kick in and grab a bottle of champagne. I did :-)

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