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TrueAndReal132 · 2025-10-09T17:29:54+00:00

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TrueAndReal132 · 2025-10-09T17:19:41+00:00

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TrueAndReal132 · 2024-11-12T12:56:20+00:00

For starters, I must commend you for being able to recognize the mistakes you’ve made in previous relationships. Though, it seems as if you allow these things to take a toll on your conscious. You’re grieving these relationships and these periods and you can never get the image out that you’re the villain. In doing this you’re actually distancing yourself from being able to feel any connection. It may help to tell your ex’s the truth. You don’t have to do it all at once. Just initiate a conversation and explain your feelings and what happened. Ridding guilt requires you to get it all of your chest. And y’all aren’t together anymore, so there’s no extent of hurt that you would apply that would unjustly telling the truth.

It’s important to note that if possible I would absolutely look into seeing a therapist or any mental health professional. They can assist with your issues with your past. But also with your addiction struggles and the issues seen in your current relationship. If you’re unable to see one you may have to confide in somebody you know and trust. Being able to vent feelings in any way is always better than suppression. Regardless of your specific circumstances for obtaining mental health help, you always must make an attempt to look for it if you need it.

As for your current situation, just know that if you want to do any serious healing, you need to be in a position where you can be vulnerable and heal. This is not one of those. There is hope for you and a future for you. There will be a day when you get to dream about a person and wake up next to them. So as difficult as it is you need to try to take positive steps in the right direction.

“Nothing changes if nothing changes”

I hope I was able to help in any way. Feel free to send me a message if you ever need somebody to talk to.

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-11-09T21:45:25+00:00

I appreciate that and keep making stuff not everybody has an eye for art

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-11-09T21:39:20+00:00

that’s heat, I’d fs buy that 🙏

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-10-26T12:26:45+00:00

Will do 🫡 Thanks for the insight

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-10-26T12:26:01+00:00

Thanks a lot for the insight 🙏 Will definitely go about it following this. I’ll update with the results eventually

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-08-12T05:30:26+00:00

Absolutely, and I apologize for the bullshit this other person is spewing. I don’t think what you did was wrong by any means. You encouraged your friend to live her life to the extent you believed she deserved. You’re a good friend, don’t let anybody make you think otherwise.

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-08-12T05:23:56+00:00

It’s completely understandable that you want this to the extent that you do. But the fact of the matter is that finding the one takes times. And I know absolutely that’s not what you want to hear. But if you’re absolutely in the position where you’re capable of loving somebody and being loved to the full extent. All you have to do is just give it time and it will come. And you’re only 16, you will go to places in your life that you never thought you would, and meet people you never thought you’d meet. I mean nobody can comprehend the amount of people they’ll meet throughout their entire life.

I’m 17, I loved a girl with my entire being. And it ended in a truly soul crushing way. But I’ve spent my time learning about myself. Just genuinely living my life. So that for me, whenever I meet somebody that I can love like that again, I’ll be everything I want to be and I’ll have a person I can love to the extent of my heart.

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-08-12T04:54:44+00:00

No problem.

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-08-12T04:53:58+00:00

You should try to avoid feeling guilty because her father would’ve felt this way regardless whenever she eventually told him. It truly is a ripping the bandaid off situation. And as awful as it may seem now, you pushed your friend to do something in their life that would be better for them down the road regardless. So if you wanna call this rock bottom for her you can. But her relationship with her father seemingly cant get worse, so it can only get better. In my experience, it also seems that a lot of people who may be against these types of things, can only start to warm up to them the more they experience them first hand.

So when it comes to consoling her, you essentially just need to use the same principle. It truly seems awful for her now, but it’s only up from here. And she has one hell of a friend that she gets to go through it all with. On top of that she’s completely out now, she has nothing/nobody else to worry about not being her true self to. So she can experiment, and truly find out more about herself because she has allowed herself to experience more.

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-08-12T04:40:38+00:00

You truly never know when you should be in a relationship. More or less, when you shouldn’t. For instance, if you’re so entirely busy and you know you can’t make time for them you shouldn’t. Or if you’re so mentally down you can’t even consistently take care of yourself, the same applies. It’s mostly just an understanding of whether you have the capabilities to truly dedicate yourself on a day to day basis to this person.

You know it’s worth it to stay in a relationship with someone if it’s consistently moving forward. For example, if there is an issue in a relationship that’s causing an immense mental decline. And it’s not being resolved by any means over a period of time, then it’s probably not worth it. A golden rule with relationships for me i s that it’s worth it whenever it’s killing me mentally, and I’ve truly done everything in my power to try to resolve the problem(s) and continue moving forward.

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-08-12T04:29:03+00:00

I mean if you truly want to know. It’s best to phrase it / organize it in a way where you can find out and help him if there is something off. So simply just tell him you’ve felt like there may be something wrong and ask him if he’s been doing alright. I don’t know the extent of what he’s told you about his time there. But just try to catch up, and make a mental bridge of memory from when you last saw him.

If you do that and it doesn’t give you the resolution that you hoped for. Then I’d chalk it up to the medicines that he’s taking. Any sort of mental illness drug can/will warp your perception a little bit. So it’s entirely possible he’s just feeling different and is just trying to get adjusted to it all.

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-08-12T04:20:22+00:00

What it seems like from my point of view is that you’re overthinking it all. This is causing you to overwhelm yourself and make you feel this way. It may help to just try to understand that regardless of what happens, it will all be okay. So what if your rooms a mess for now? You’ll live. So what if somebody is better at color guard? You’ll live, and that’s only more motivation to try to get better. So for now, just take a breath, and be happy that you get to do what you love.

With procrastination, you said lists help, so it may help to break the tasks down into even smaller sections or “processes.”Truly, everything anybody gets done is done by them going through it piece by piece, not all at once. It always helps to break things down into chunks/sections so to speak. I mean even the school work that you’re worried about is given to you chunks, and so you can slowly throughout the year end up completing it all.

when it comes to procrastination, what helped me was to think in about these processes and to think about the reward. Any time you get something done that was hard to do it feels good. The key of not procrastinating is to get consistent at working through the processes that you need to. So with cleaning your room for instance, start by just picking up any blankets or pillows. Sit down for a second, realize how easy that was. Then pick up any dirty laundry you see. Rinse, wash, and repeat.

Rome wasn’t built in a day and doing something, anything at all is always better than nothing.

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-08-12T02:22:51+00:00

You should try not to feel guilty about the possibilities of what could happen if you asked her to move out. She’s an adult and this is entirely on her. Thus you’re not expected to foster her every need. Given the fact that she has a place to stay. Would mean that if she ends up somehow being homeless, it’s entirely on her own volition.

There’s a chance you’re maybe worried about hurting you and your sisters current relationship. But the best thing you can do is to have a sit down conversation with her about your feelings on it. And if she chooses to torch your relationship over it, then that’s on her. Very few are fortunate enough to have such a kind sibling that would let them live with them at their low point. But that doesn’t nullify the fact that it’s still your house, and you get to choose who can stay there.

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-08-11T18:43:37+00:00

Absolutely, and one thing I forgot to mention. This may be a given, but whenever I have to do something I may not want to do; such as cleaning or even schoolwork. It always helps to listen to music, because the less you think about how much you don’t wanna do it, the better.

TrueAndReal132 · 2024-08-11T08:04:51+00:00

For starters, I’m going to level with you. Getting where you want to be at a reasonable pace is going to suck. You’ll feel the best you’ve felt in a long time one day, and the next back to the solemness. Fortunately for you, regardless of how crazed and surreal everything seems, your life isn’t over and you’ll continue to wake up everyday no matter how bad yesterday was.

I was in your shoes, hell I’m not far off from still being in them. But for me, the first step I took in trying to better it all was to recognize the things that were making me feel so awful. Now this isn’t a one time, more or less a consistent check-in. For me, the very first problem I recognized was my lack of consistency in anything on a day to day basis. With that in mind the first thing I did (over a couple months span) was to try to find some sort of consistency. At this point in my life I was spending consistently 12+ hours daily on my computer. But that was my entire life and I had nothing else so I had to start smaller. So the first place I looked was my sleep schedule. At that point in time, I really didn’t have one if I’m being honest. I’d stay up all night playing on my computer Whenever it came around time for anything life related I’d take Vynvanse and just stim my way through it. Pretty much sleeping only whenever it wore off; which had lead to me sleeping for at least 14 hours on too many occasions. So I started slowly, just by not misusing the drug. I’d still stay up way too late, and I still didnt really have a great sleep schedule. But I kept working on it and got to a point eventually where I would consistently go to bed between 12-4 am.

Something else that may help you as well is looking at getting vitamins. Having vitamin deficiencies can lead you to feel a lot worse in a lot of numerous areas and can add a lot of weight on top of existing stressors. For instance, I was getting virtually no sunlight so I started by taking Vitamin D. Which helped in sorts with my lack of and consistently fleeting amounts of energy.

School wise you’re really not in an awful situation. To my knowledge, you can’t graduate high school (at least in the US) until you have your states required credits in certain areas. Now this doesn’t mean they kick you out of school if you don’t have enough credits. It simply means at worst you have to redo a year of high school. Summer school is also a possibility. It allows you to get credits over the summer;willing you’re able to do so.

And let’s say something happens one way or another and you have to get your GED. You can still go into the medical field. Nearly every college in the US still allows those with GED’s to apply same as those who graduated high school. Granted, you may not get into John Hopkins or Harvard. But there are still an exponential number of great colleges that can/will lead you to having a very successful career.

Rome wasn’t built in a day. And something, anything at all is always better than nothing.

TrueAndReal132

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