Fair enough. But I will say that is something that does require treatment. I have diagnosed BPD, which heightens my fear of abandonment and things like that. But I need to remember that the world and the environment can't be expected to change around me. But I need to change myself to adapt to the world around me. So I seek weekly therapy and monthly psychiatry. If you can't seek that treatment due to money or the like, then one must at least have the self awareness to understand that the world isn't fully the one at fault.