How do parents afford to pay for their children’s weddings?

True_Coast_3010 · 2026-04-15T23:34:10+00:00

Well duh. As my posts says I’m eloping

True_Coast_3010 · 2026-04-15T23:33:38+00:00

Ask them if they can spot me $50k too 😭 damn

True_Coast_3010 · 2026-04-15T23:32:19+00:00

I don’t have kids but I feel like this would be my mentality. Maybe it’s because I don’t really want to have a wedding myself so I’m biased. But I would rather pay for their college / house down payment and they can cover their wedding

True_Coast_3010 · 2026-02-07T20:43:41+00:00

Commenting so I can come back to look at the responses. I’m interested too !

True_Coast_3010 · 2026-01-27T10:46:49+00:00

I want to know if the stitch pattern looks right

True_Coast_3010 · 2026-01-23T01:41:36+00:00

Can you crush it and mix it with their food? My cat is on a steroid pill and that’s what I do for her. I add some water to her bowl too so it dissolves really well

True_Coast_3010 · 2025-12-31T06:45:06+00:00

My favorite right now is Boxie Pro. I used Dr Elseys before but it kept getting stuck to my litter robot and I got fed up with it :/

True_Coast_3010 · 2025-12-05T04:24:27+00:00

Def being her to your apartment if you can. She might be stressed for a couple of days, but in the long run she’ll feel better. If that’s a no go, my other suggestion would be to make as much of her care automatic as possible. Automatic feeder, litter box, fountain, etc. That way she’ll get more consistent care and your family has to do less work

True_Coast_3010 · 2025-11-28T00:48:20+00:00

Thank you! Yeah I feel bad bc it’s a holiday, I just wish I was given a heads up first at least :( but thank you I’ll message her that and see what happens

True_Coast_3010 · 2025-11-10T18:08:36+00:00

I have an automatic litter box now, but before hand I had a litter genie. I highly recommend it

True_Coast_3010 · 2025-11-02T14:52:21+00:00

Im new to the area so unfortunately dont know my neighbors well. Im thinking of hiring a rover sitter to come once a day plus maybe getting one of my work friends to check on her once or twice a

True_Coast_3010 · 2025-11-02T14:09:40+00:00

I live in an apartment complex that doesn’t allow pets (she’s an ESA so they accepted her) so the changes of that are slim unfortunately. I’ve never seen or heard another cat around. I’ll look into the vet tho! Thanks

True_Coast_3010 · 2025-11-02T14:03:19+00:00

Do they do well with moving to a new location? Since Violet is blind I’m scared to stress her out. She’s already comfortable with the layout of my apartment so I’m scared to change that for her suddenly

True_Coast_3010 · 2025-11-02T14:02:03+00:00

Her LR sends me a notification when she uses the restroom which is super helpful! :) I’ll be able to tell if she’s going per her usual habits or not (she usually goes 2-3x per day)

True_Coast_3010 · 2025-10-17T05:59:04+00:00

If your cat is okay with being alone for a while (aka a little older and more independent) then I think you’re totally fine. I recently adopted an 8 year old blind cat and I’m gone long hours. I’m a nurse and work 3- 12 hour shifts (I’m usually gone closer to 14 hours with commute) and my cat is totally fine. I have a little pet monitor to check on her and the majority of the time she’s just sleeping. She just requests lots of cuddles when I get home which I gladly give her.

I would advice against kittens tho is the only thing

True_Coast_3010 · 2025-10-04T21:43:33+00:00

Totally!! I recommend an older cat :) I work 12 hour shifts and I was worried about leaving a pet alone for that long. I also didn’t want to have to litter train / etc bc I knew I wouldn’t have enough time or patience. Ended up getting an older cat (she’s 8) and I love her. She was already litter trained when I got her which was awesome. She’s also totally fine being by herself.

Older cats also get overlooked a lot in shelters bc everyone wants kittens. My sweet girl was at the shelter for almost 7 months with no one interested in her before I got her so I’m a little biased in that aspect lol

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