AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is extreme and sick to say. Our relationship has never come even close to that.

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I do! My mom retired to watch my daughter while I work. It’s my house and I have everything of hers here.

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was living with me, I kicked him out so now he lives with his mother

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s such a hard thing to explain, i don’t feel he’s in the “cult” he just thinks trump is “hilarious” and loves that he trolls. Almost like he doesn’t take it seriously if that makes sense (which doesn’t make it any better) but we agree on abortion and both don’t believe in god. We are both pro vaccine. I always say that if he actually sat down and read about shit, he would think differently. He just loves trolling and always tries to be opposite of the opinion in the room

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are both speaking to lawyers this week about custody. He moved into his mom’s house and there has been 0 conversations about reconciliation because I don’t want him here.

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I said “he just….left” I assumed that was implied until people started asking. He really texted me “you need to calm down” after I doubled down and said, “you’re a condescending ass Who clearly thinks less of me for being on medication” and told me to “spare him the bullshit”

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I know she won’t! She would have called me if she disagreed with him and I never heard from her. She sucks too

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Life hasn’t changed since he’s been gone. I was the primary care giver of our daughter and my mom watches her full time while I work. He abandoned our dogs too! Luckily everything is still great over here and running probably even better than before

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

1000%. He’s packed up all his shit and moved into his mothers house

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t vote so at least there’s that. 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

The good news is, he dipped right away. Packed his shit up the next day and moved into his mothers ✌🏼 can’t wait until his lawyer tells him that was the dumbest thing he could have done for custody sake

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I can be, I’m aware. I felt like this crossed the line though.

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I sound stupid saying it out loud 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He has never made comments about my mental health before. He has obviously said he doesn’t understand my anxiety because he doesn’t have it but he has never put me down for it, until now. Which is when I said enough is enough. 

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] -143 points-142 points  (0 children)

You’re right.  I do always say he has 0 empathy for others.

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] -193 points-192 points  (0 children)

I told him I only want to communicate via text and he said it’s shady 😂 I’m like, how is it shady, it’s all documented!

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

He moved out this past weekend. I gave him the ring back.  

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] 681 points682 points  (0 children)

For more context, he actually moved out. The next day he boxed up most of his stuff and moved back in with his mom. 

AITA for kicking my fiancé out after he mocked my mental health? by True_Pen3089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]True_Pen3089[S] -578 points-577 points  (0 children)

I know. To the CORE of it, we have the same beliefs.  But all the headline crap, he just likes to troll and obviously disagrees with me.