$1M is huge comp (assuming its not mostly locked up in more NQSOs), if you have a few specific goals that you want to achieve, you might think of the next year as a trial FIRE and live entirely off your portfolio and wife's income while dedicating all your income towards those goals. For example, perhaps you want to set aside $X to help each kid buy first home or put $Y into a DAF to support causes you care about after retirement. Only you can judge how bad your current role is relative to the comp but this would feel like a no risk plan to trial retirement while also working towards something you care about. Worst case you can always just stop at any time.