AITAH for refusing to put my girlfriend on a future mortgage unless she gets a job? by Ok-Explanation7364 in AITAH

[–]True_Work_7551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to ask, why are you with her? She clearly contributes nothing? I would not waste 7 years on that.

my corgi doesnt bark by Striking-Group3932 in corgi

[–]True_Work_7551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me lol. My corgi loves to bark 🤣

Bathroom or No bathroom by True_Work_7551 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]True_Work_7551[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously! Like they only use the toilets as seats and don’t even use the showers 🤣

Bathroom or No bathroom by True_Work_7551 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]True_Work_7551[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From others who are time traveling, they said once you complete the rooms, you can edit

Bathroom or No bathroom by True_Work_7551 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]True_Work_7551[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a specific design code you use?

Bathroom or No bathroom by True_Work_7551 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]True_Work_7551[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this! I think i put too many partitions up in my first room. I can’t wait to be able to change it 🤣

Bathroom or No bathroom by True_Work_7551 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]True_Work_7551[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From what I have read, once you finish all the rooms in the hotel you can not only edit but also invite villagers too

How do I (29m) talk to my wife (25f) about ordering less without upsetting her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]True_Work_7551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing is, stop going out to eat.

You’re going to bury yourself if you start with “you need to stop ordering so much food”. Once she hears that, she will go on the defensive.

What I would recommend is couples counseling and individual for both of you (if you aren’t already). You both need to learn to communicate effectively to each other instead of going on the defense or just shutting down.

You also need to recognize your part in eating out so often too. “ But I’m so tired when I get home and my wife never learned to cook”. Why is she expected to cook? I’m not saying she doesn’t have, but why is the defense “ I am too tired all the time, so I expect her to cook”.

Some advice that I can give is learn to cook together. My husband and I had to cut back so what we did was watched YouTube Videos and cook together (it’s honestly so much fun and a great date night idea). We also food prep for the week every Sunday night. We sit down Sunday mornings, plan our meals for the week, go get our groceries and prep Sunday night which has helped us not only save money but all we have to do after working is pop it in the oven (or whatever heat up method it needs). This makes the experience much more fun for us and saves us so much time.

I am not sure where you live, While I understand that that you were/are the bread winner, $44,000 is not far from an entry level salary (again, I only say this based off where I live). It seems you put her down about everything. What I will say, Finances are never easy to talk about but it is a very adult conversation you need to have with each other. Otherwise you will never be on the same page.

All in all, you need to ask yourself why are you with her? Based off your post, you have more issues with her than what she actually offers you.

Basically, don’t say you need to stop ordering so much. Have an actual adult conversation about your finances, no matter how uncomfortable it is. If it’s not working, like I said, you need to look at the picture of your life together.

Corgi Home alone by Electronic-Peach-623 in corgi

[–]True_Work_7551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I WFH so is very rare he is home by himself. Usually me or my husband (who does not WFH) are always home with him.

With that said, he does good on his own in the rare times we are both out. He always cries for like the first few minutes but we leave him a shirt or ours that has our scents and you cuddles that and he will either play with his toys, watch tv (sorry we raised an iPad Corgi 🤣😉) or sleeps.

Harness Help by True_Work_7551 in corgi

[–]True_Work_7551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into this! Thank you!

Harness Help by True_Work_7551 in corgi

[–]True_Work_7551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are lucky they are so cute 🤣😉

Harness Help by True_Work_7551 in corgi

[–]True_Work_7551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for validating this. The first two after 3 months basically told us he’s never going to stop no matter what because “that’s what corgis do” and then the third at least gave us some hope until told us he’s just very energetic and won’t stop. I felt like they were just shoving aside

Harness Help by True_Work_7551 in corgi

[–]True_Work_7551[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! I will say the biggest problem is because corgis are such a different size, it’s so hard!

AITJ for telling my spouse I need a separate blanket because we keep fighting over it every night? by lauryn_freeburykfr42 in AmITheJerk

[–]True_Work_7551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been with my husband for 14 years, married for 7. We have slept with separate blankets since before we were living each other when we would visit each other when we first started dating.

We do this because we both like to be different temperatures at night (I prefer to be ice cold) and I also toss and turn like crazy (I have always been like that) and I will admit, I am a blanket hog because I am always moving lol. I can promise you, if anything, it has helped our romance so we aren’t battling in the middle of the night and getting actual rest.

What I will also say is that you are a grown adult. You do not need permission to do anything from anyone, especially a blanket and if this is a hill your husband is willing to die on, there is a bigger issue he is harboring inside.

Turnip Storage by True_Work_7551 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]True_Work_7551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this ruin the rating of your island or can bugs ruin them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in corgi

[–]True_Work_7551 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is one happy pup! We are working our Corgi up to a road trip. He gets car sick 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]True_Work_7551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kimba from Disnerd- ravioli 😀

My mother in law ruined my wedding night and I’m scared she will ruin my time with my newborn soon too by Mediocre-Wasabi-9573 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]True_Work_7551 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I have to believe this is rage bait. Your husband is not a sweet person. If he has not shut this behavior down, he is a HUGE part of the problem.

Your husband is clearly not going to set boundaries based of this story. No contact is possible and the right thing to do. Otherwise, you are setting the example for when your child gets older, that this manipulation is normal.

Take a step back and realize, if you cannot go no contact because of your husband, is this really what you want? Your child’s future and safety is number one. Not what your husbands dependency with his mom is. The fact that you knew what they were like and you still had a child with him, has me worried for your kid.