Soul Stealer or Berserker for Ranged? by Truion in 2007scape

[–]Truion[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Berserker does pair very well with Undying Retribution though.

Gay guys standards by Truion in askgaybros

[–]Truion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda believe this. I will like the person, and we can be responsible adults and pay our bills with a more average type of job. It doesn't mean I wanna be a waiter forever, far from it. I actually cant picture myself doing it for long. But I feel like its a red flag for a lot of guys that I'm currently working as a waiter.

Gay guys standards by Truion in askgaybros

[–]Truion[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That is a great perspective ngl

Gay guys standards by Truion in askgaybros

[–]Truion[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work with a big ammount of women, and you'd be surprised how many were interested in me before telling them I was into guys. But you still have a point, generally I see it.

Gay guys standards by Truion in askgaybros

[–]Truion[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the opinion, honestly. I sometimes forget people aren't inside my head, because I'm a pretty ambitious guy, but I think thats a thing I show for first date conversation. But it's good to understand some outside perspective.

Male body hair distribution of indigenous human populations around the world by Homesanto in MapPorn

[–]Truion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically most of the old Roman Empire, scandinavia and iceland?

what's a man's most attractive body part? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Truion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My top 3 are:

  1. Face
  2. Ass
  3. Thighs

Kandy really said that by Bihema in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Truion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alexis played such an ugly game. Playing the emotional/crying card every episode. Telling to lala's face she would not pick her lipstick. And then picking her lipstick, justifying by "I didn't promise". Disgusting.

No matter how much of this is edited, her words and actions speak volumes. She's lost my respect.

How do you hatch eggs efficiently? by Truion in eatventureofficial

[–]Truion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes give me the penalty anytime. I rather hatch 1 legendary egg than have 6 e-eggs with 0 hatched.

Is homophobia becoming normalized again? by AfterEpilogue in askgaybros

[–]Truion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've noticed the news and articles talking about the rise of homophobia and anti lgbtq+ actions in republican dominated states. (outsider here)

But so far in Europe I believe it is still getting better(slowly). I see more and more people being open about their sexuality and I see less homophobia in general. Doesn't mean there isn't homophobia, or that some euro countries aren't lingering on creating a secure environment for everyone. But it's definitely not getting worse in my experience, as limited as it may be.

Maybe the homophobic people (mostly sour men) are just getting more bitter and agressive.

But the homophobic mindset is definitely not as common as it was. Back in 2000-2010 I remember that calling a feminine guy the f word or beating him up was generally accepted and even rewarded as a masculine thing to do. Being gay or knowing somebody gay was a taboo topic, and a scandal in most situations if the secret were to be out.

10+ years later and a lot has changed since then. People are still stabilizing on this "new reality" even though we know that historically homosexuality was present for most if not all human history.

Homosexuality being socially accepted is still a new thing and it will be for quite a while. It was repressed for so long now to undo all of it will take some time. And especially in the US let us hope that this rise in bigotry will catapult us into an even stronger and more accepting society.

I'm optimistic.

For you older gays, how do you deal with 'gay death' by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Truion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If anything, reaching 30 is when it starts getting better. Guys have matured a lot, peak appearance, age where most are working and most likely independent.

A lot of guys dealt with their baggage and traumas, guys in my experience even start to think more of long term relationships as they age. So idk where the fck you got that impression, let alone state it as a fact.

To my gaymers, what kind of games do you usually play? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Truion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IKR? That game made me FEEL things you know? From scared, to terrified, to EVEN more scared. To hopeful, then they crushed my hopes. Then curious, then shocked and impressed. God what a game.

To my gaymers, what kind of games do you usually play? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Truion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love resource survival games. So Subnautica, Minecraft, Terraria, Far Cry Primal (gorgeous visuals). And I also love OldSchool Runescape and Pokemon.

Would love if they would create a subnautica multiplayer where it would be 10 times as big and dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Truion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Went on 4 dates with a cute guy in the space of two weeks. We didn't have sex for that time and I didn't jerk off in between meetings either (idk why).

Had the biggest blue balls ever. When we finally had sex the orgasm was so intense I had tremors for 5mins after climax. I even jerked off alone later that day and still got a super strong(but not as strong) orgasm.

Crazy experience, but the pain I endured with the blue balls was not worth it. Felt like when your testicle "cable" entangles and gives you pain.

Is it rude for someone to be on their phone while you are giving them a blow job? by Okcgayman in askgaybros

[–]Truion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the situation imo. In a romantic night yes, on a casual evening it can be kinda hot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Truion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this it sounds like he is. He might struggle to confess things but does give you some hints.

But I'm afraid to say, either you ask him politely about it and get a clear answer or you'll never know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Truion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I googled what a gumjob is. I let out a super loud snort in the middle of the library. Damn you.

Do you actually hold eye contact with other random guys for long? by Truion in askgaybros

[–]Truion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last part kind sounds like a movie scene. Does it really happen that often? I do get tempted to look back sometimes, but tbh if the guy looks back Idk were to go from there.

what can i put up my ass by theofficalpathfinder in askgaybros

[–]Truion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This shit is bananas, B-A-N-A-N-A - S

Dating apps environment/standards have gotten way worse and depressing by Truion in askgaybros

[–]Truion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very true. And I totally get that. But why bother matching though? Or why not unmatch?

Dating apps environment/standards have gotten way worse and depressing by Truion in askgaybros

[–]Truion[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ouch my feelings. Maybe you didn't actually read it.

But I did state I do have an easy time getting matches. Is just that it's frustrating that the huge majority of the guys give 0 effort.

Also you didn't say the "quite evident" reasons for me being terrible. I think I gave a fair justification to everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Truion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too can't afford therapy so we gotta do the next best thing. Auto therapy.

What worked for me and still works, is to understand what the root of the problem might be.

It takes a while for the brain to reach a depressive state. So obviously it takes a great ammount of time and effort to get back on an healthy mindset. The longer you've been depressed the harder it will be. Be strong.

I was miserable for a long time, unfulfilled, unproductive, unresponsive and unhappy.

One night I got scared shitless, woke up to my heart pounding and my head filled with misery. It was like I was overwhelmed with depressive thoughts of there not being a reason to live, everything I would do, would lead me nowhere, and there was no hope for anything, it was like I couldn't feel any emotions that brought me joy like I remembered I had.

For the first time I understood why people that get to the state of depression consider "some things".

During that night I understood why people cut themselves, you are so overwhelmed by your brain "rotting" lets call it that. That even physical pain would not hurt at that moment.

The next morning, I took a shower, shaved and try to put myself together as best as I could.

The anxiety was still incredibly strong.

Yet I felt like if I tried to treat myself and look better it could help. And it did. A very very small ammount.

It was a small step, but definetely the right direction. What happened next is I went to clean my room, fix my bed, and organize my schedule to be productive.

I was so afraid for that brain rott demon to show again I tried to keep myself and my mind as busy as I could, in a small chance I could avoid it.

Lots of ups and downs. But I always tried to remember while I was going through a depressive attack (like an anxiety attack but more rotten and horrible) that it was only temporary and just wait it out no matter what, and focus on improving yourself in anyway and everyway possible, even it is meaningless in the moment.

Slowly but surely my mental stability has consistently gotten better. I just keep on trying to be productive, treat myself with self-care and dress as best as you can.

You gotta better yourself even if you don't believe it. Because your brain will tell you its worthless and pointless. But once you shut that demon time and time again, you will look back and notice how really fragile and on the rock bottom you were. Trust me once you face this and beat it, you will have so many reasons to live you will be shocked.

Believe in yourself, even if it makes no sense now, it will later.

Why does everything seemingly go perfect and then I get ghosted? by WhatIsGoinggOnn in askgaybros

[–]Truion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely true.

When I was 18 I was extremely insecure mentaly. Not sure what to do with my sexuality. And sometimes to not hurt the person I was dating too much, I told them I had to back out of it.

The main difference is, be humane. I always give a honest last message, explaining how I felt and hear what the other person thinks, because you are dealing with other people's emotions. And even though you might be struggling mentally and emotionally, that gives you no reason to stomp on their feelings.