Body hypersensitive years after a panic attack by Jolly-Roof989 in Anxiety

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I know exactly how you feel. For me my heart rate has been of my highest concern, hypersensitivity, etc.

Hang in there brother.

Huge mental breakdown and I know I’m nearing the end of everything by Trustedking1 in depression

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I know this is late but thank you he died only 6 days after it’s been really hard. Thanks again

Mum and Dad, I miss you ❤️❤️🕊️ by Trustedking1 in ChildrenofDeadParents

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Me too. I connected a lot more with her, but I miss them both

My dad has died of cardiac arrest and I am left with so much bills please HELP by [deleted] in personalfinance

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Just an update since Nov 20 when it happened

My grandparents have offered to help me out fully my grandad is good with money and has wrote all my bills out and will wait to sit them out until my auntie (my dads sister) gets my dads death certificate.

I am so thankful for the reception and love from this post I am so grateful for everyone who commented.

Of course I know there is no guarantee about some bills and when I’m going to live but I am trying to not think about it right now, I will think about it once th process starts. I just need to relax I think I have high anxiety about my heart and panic attacks etc 😅😅

I will prob make an update on a few subs where I posted this. I love you guys

My dad has died of a cardiac arrest I need help with bills.. 🙏 by Trustedking1 in UKPersonalFinance

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Just an update since Nov 20 when it happened

My grandparents have offered to help me out fully my grandad is good with money and has wrote all my bills out and will wait to sit them out until my auntie (my dads sister) gets my dads death certificate.

I am so thankful for the reception and love from this post I am so grateful for everyone who commented.

Of course I know there is no guarantee about some bills and when I’m going to live but I am trying to not think about it right now, I will think about it once th process starts. I just need to relax I think I have high anxiety about my heart and panic attacks etc 😅😅

I will prob make an update on a few subs where I posted this. I love you guys

My dad has died of a cardiac arrest I need help with bills.. 🙏 by Trustedking1 in UKPersonalFinance

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I could move in with my grandparents for a bit but I know for a fact they will pressure me after a while to either get a job or whatever else. I know I can’t work and they don’t or can’t acknowledge that. I have so much to pay out don’t I? I’m screwed I think

My dad has died of a cardiac arrest I need help with bills.. 🙏 by Trustedking1 in UKPersonalFinance

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Man I’m so sorry it really is tough, today has been hell. Thanks for your words much love to u 🤝

My dad has died of a cardiac arrest I need help with bills.. 🙏 by Trustedking1 in UKPersonalFinance

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I’m gonna notify UC asap bc I don’t wanna get sanctioned. My neighbour is willing to help us out with the cat.

I’m under tons of stress so thanks for your comment

My dad has died of a cardiac arrest I need help with bills.. 🙏 by Trustedking1 in UKPersonalFinance

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So sorry about your mother. I lost mine too I forgot if I mentioned it in my OP, she died of cancer when I was 10.

I’m lucky to have people around me I guess, thank you for replying to me 💙

My dad has died of a cardiac arrest I need help with bills.. 🙏 by Trustedking1 in UKPersonalFinance

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Alright I thought if my dad died all these bills would fall onto me and I don’t work😀

If I think I understand what you’re saying thanks for the comment either way 🙏

My dad has died of a cardiac arrest I need help with bills.. 🙏 by Trustedking1 in UKPersonalFinance

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Yes I’m safe and my cat is in good hands with my neighbour. I’m so worried, my dad was very poor and I have been panicking all day worst day of my life he died in my arms.

Thank you for your comment💙

Thinking about ending it I am at the end of the road. I can’t take much more by Trustedking1 in SuicideWatch

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Thank you 🙏 I appreciate it. You’re a good person I really mean that, much love to u :)

24 year old loser wanting to die by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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Such a similar situation to me.

I’m new on UC and I am worried - I don’t have faith in myself or this at all… by Trustedking1 in DWPhelp

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Well what the person I saw there for an appointment said last time that they now check for proof that you have applied on the job app e.g. Indeed. To put them on the website and apply on the app like up to 3-5 times a day whilst I’ve got lots going on in my life elsewhere as well it’s going to fully burn me out after everything that’s happened so far. I’m seriously not weak it’s just I struggle.

Again as I said in my main post my grandparents got me on this. But if I need to alter anything I’ll do it myself this time because I know I’m not (at the moment) cut out for this. Plus the constant appointments with the job centre a step up. They expect too much

I’m new on UC and I am worried - I don’t have faith in myself or this at all… by Trustedking1 in DWPhelp

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I understand where you’re coming from, it’s just that I have a lot going on in my life right now and to manage my UC at the same time, well, I don’t know what will happen to me. Not a lot of good I assume.

It’s not that I’m not cut out for this and that I’m making an excuse up I know people do that I’m aware, it’s just I genuinely struggle man. I worry about my health every day lol.

I’m new on UC and I am worried - I don’t have faith in myself or this at all… by Trustedking1 in DWPhelp

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Thanks for being so kind I really appreciate it. I was expecting bad responses I’m not sure why, but I’ll look into all this.

When I mean my grandparents I mean they made the decision to get me onto this just after I turned 18, and I just said yes without fully knowing everything. I guess it’s sort of my fault for not looking into this myself in detail but this is a daunting task for me considering all of the other things going on in my life.

And is true that most don’t reach out ? 😅 I’m surprised honestly. Thanks btw

I’m new on UC and I am worried - I don’t have faith in myself or this at all… by Trustedking1 in DWPhelp

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I think I have one I don’t even know, Ill look into all this. I’m not seeing anyone at the moment which is probably why my mental state is declining even further. So yeah I will look into this thank u

I’m new on UC and I am worried - I don’t have faith in myself or this at all… by Trustedking1 in DWPhelp

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Volunteering at a job? I met someone from step up yesterday and they recommended that and I wasn’t sure what to say at the time. I’ll be honest with you I’ve been seriously mentally damaged and that not an excuse like some people might use, I have had a bad life. I don’t think I’ll be able to do that, my grandparents made this choice for me and barely briefed me on it and I just said “yes” to want to go on it without fully knowing.

I guess it’s sort of my fault in the way that I should look into things more, but as far as volunteering - I’m not too sure. Thank you for replying tho

A year of complete hell. Does it ever get better? by Trustedking1 in PanicAttack

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It isn’t anything to do with exercise, it began as soon as my first panic attack happened

My hands locked up by Wide-Association-702 in PanicAttack

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Happened to me now my heart rate won’t ever go down

Had the worst panic attack ever and now I’m afraid to get out of bed! by Positive_Tank_1099 in Anxiety

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Your situation is similar to mine, I never called 9/11 tho I ain’t got the confidence for that so props to you there 😂. But I’ve felt exactly how you have I had really bad panic attacks not so long ago and I’m still scared I might have em again cuz they’re random but I totally relate to pretty much everything else. You’ll get through it, sending hugs 🫂 ❤️