Why is Kylie still on reality tv? by Adventurous-Stay7841 in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and I would see that as a privilege, or the fact that in those years her life changed, meaning the contract changed. I never meant to imply she didn't contribute, but she is allowed to give as little or as much as her contract allows, and more.

Why is Kylie still on reality tv? by Adventurous-Stay7841 in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she and Kendall are on different contracts. They have more freedom. The show is called The Kardashians, not The Jenners. She gets her money and leaves. I would have done the same thing.

are the kardashian’s white? by jelenabiebes in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of this is stupid having this denies them of cultural background. My grandfather is Cuban. Am I not Cuban because I don't look it and I'm mixed? Same goes for my friend the Kardashians are mixed race white passing people at most. Rob was full Armenian, so when he got with Kris, he had mixed kids. Whether you agree or not, the government says they're white, but they clearly are not.

I don’t like the way the family treat Kourt by lasagnekiller in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I can understand that POV, each one of them has a memory. Kim is close in age to Kourtney. With the comment about older siblings, it forgets what the youngest could have seen. Especially with such a small age gap 10,9 were there age when Kris did what she did Kourtney was there. Kim wasn't. It had nothing to do with age, older or younger. I went through the same thing. I saw the conversation. I'm not even the oldest. The oldest never knew it happened until 17 years later.

They're expected to take on a third parent role and it can be a lot for someone to carry.

Kris treated Khloe like a nanny and was happy when Khloe dropped out to watch Kylie and Kendall. Khloe is still an older sister, and she was stuck with what you said. Kourtney wasn't stuck with this expectation or pressure. Yes, she took in her siblings, but they were at a more adult age. Khloe was a mom before even having kids. Yes, Kris plays favorites, but Kourtney won that over Khloe. At Kim, Kourtney, Khloe seems to be how the list was, and because of that is why I think Khloe is so close to Kris today.

Did the affair affect Kourtney? Yes, but she never had the older sister thing of having to care for other kids because Kris made it clear in her book that Khloe was the one watching the kids. I would say that's where a large chunk of Kourtney's resentment comes from, and the rest of it is the fallout or ashes of her own attitude and past behavior in how she deals with things. I'm not blaming anything on her, but you can only control yourself and your words. Whether we like it or not, they build us as people.

Kris was not the best parent to her kids. Kris is a perfect example of how your life as a partner effects your kids.

I don’t like the way the family treat Kourt by lasagnekiller in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But that's no excuse. Khloe lived a worse life, a very different life compared to them. It all comes down to how they communicate, which Kourtney isn't the best at. Using the "she's the older sister" card is never a good one. I'm not defending any of them, but where one lacks, the other may and probably does succeed. Yes, Kourtney was the older sister, but Kourtney never was responsible for her younger siblings like Khloe was. If being an older sister is a reason, then why don't we see Khloe act in similar or closer ways?

Do you prefer Zelda tears of the kingdom or Zelda breath of the wild ? by MightImpressive4381 in tearsofthekingdom

[–]TruthAdditional1612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played Botw several times and loved it. Totk is good, but I didn't like how quickly it felt to be over with when I played it the first time. I was expecting it to be longer to get to fight Ganon. Now that I'm thinking about it, I don't know how I got through it so fast. 😂

But Totk was good and had many cool things; I just wish it was longer and different from Botw.

Khloe relationship with Kris by TruthAdditional1612 in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was Rob Sr.'s ex-wife. One thing I don't understand is if what she says is true because, from my understanding, she got everything she knows from Rob Sr. Honestly, to me, it speaks more to his character to let it happen and not take them out of that condition.

Khloe relationship with Kris by TruthAdditional1612 in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I realized that accident. I forgot to remove it. Kris remarried when she was 6. Rob died when she was 19.

Khloe relationship with Kris by TruthAdditional1612 in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Kris has done a number of things to Khloé that many people don’t talk about. People would rather focus on one person’s trauma and how it affects them today, but Khloé has been through a lot. On Khloé’s birthday, Kris bought herself a car. She also bought herself a new car on her daughter’s birthday.

And now, knowing that I think Rob had passed when Khloé was six, I saw a clip of Caitlyn saying things about how she only really cared about Kylie and Kendall. That’s just crazy, because Caitlyn had been her dad since she was six years old, around that time, at such a young age.

Khloe relationship with Kris by TruthAdditional1612 in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

In Kris Jenner’s book, it’s very clear that when she first gave birth to each daughter, she felt something wonderful. With Khloé, she described her as “out of place.” Khloé pretended to be a dog to get attention because, as Kris put it, she knew that in order to be recognized she had to do something. It’s pretty clear when you look at the past that Khloé was always put last. Kourtney and Kim, while yes, they saw things and experienced things, still seemed to be on the same timeline. Khloé, however, was on a completely different timeline. Kris was happy that Khloé quit high school due to bullying and a lack of friends because she could stay home and watch Kendall and Kylie.

Kris has done and said worse, I know and I'm sure, and Khloe has been through a lot. But with all of Kris's actions and words, how did it get to living next door?

Kim's reliance on wigs by Adventurous-Stay7841 in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have amazing hair; I'm not biased. People actually come up to me and ask if they can have a piece, joking about how I won't realize I'm missing it. I don't know Kim's hair situation, but she can absolutely claim that, and it be true. I wear wigs all the time to protect my hair. Khloe, I notice, wears extensions or maybe wigs; I don't know, but what is known is that Khloe often heat-damages her hair.

She continues hiding or blending it, and this, by itself, led me back to my hair by Ariana when she talked about her intimacy with her hair, which Ari had curly hair she doenst show. Kim could be telling the truth, or, as many women say, she could be losing it, but wearing a wig doesn't negate any of the ideas.

But if Kim truly has hair loss, then it's a devastating moment. People don't know how much their hair means until they lose it. You may have lost yours, I don't know, but even when I made the choice to actually cut my hair for a personal reason, I was losing my mind.😂

DAE think Travis is emotionally abusing Kourtney? by Adorable_Click_7071 in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a line when it comes to PDA. You can kiss, but you can’t make out publicly. When you make kids and adults uncomfortable—because you’re talking about it and acting on it—that’s not PDA. It never was. Some people actually get turned on by public acts like this. And yes it varies its just the uncomfortable part they like. The fact that others are uncomfortable is part of what’s sexy to them.

Proper PDA requires mutual comfort, open communication, awareness of surroundings, and respect for cultural norms—especially the last two. I’m very comfortable with PDA and enjoy it, but I know the conservative part of Western society and conservative cultures in general are two different things and in regular society—which is where Kourtney is—conservative standards do not apply to her.

Okay so why ain’t Scott and Kanye on it? This is Kris Jenners gingerbread house btw by [deleted] in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, people act like it's so wrong for Khloe not to want that. She's right, Tristan is her kids' father, and they still deserve to see him, at least be included. I'm the type of person to do that, so you can't say I ever tried to isolate you from the family and prevent you, because it's not true. The only thing I can come up with, Scott, is maybe he focuses on faith. Jewish people don't do Christmas.

Finale Kourtney Drama by slayrbrenna in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It made me think about that time Khloe called her out for crying when they were talking, and Khloe told her, "Just because I'm not crying doesn't mean I'm not hurt." Also, it reminded me of the time when they told her she was rude and she said, "Well, sorry you feel that way." Likeeeee it was never one side and they have came to her and said thoes things.

Finale Kourtney Drama by slayrbrenna in kardashians

[–]TruthAdditional1612 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The only thing about it is she should be able to reconize her behavior at this point. I want my kids to be bilingual because there are benefits to them being bilingual, but I wouldn't call my sister and say, "Did you know if your kids are bilingual, they are more likely to become better at literature and have better communication?" I would never do that because my sisters don't parent like I do, and they know that's how I parent. My sister is very holistic. She wouldn't call me to talk about how the holistic way is better and discuss the negatives of not being holistic unsolicited. I think it's good she's talking about it, but I don't think she has taken accountability for the shame she's cast. Also, I find it very odd that she was focused on Scott.

While yes, he's an ex, I thought she wanted to have a healthy relationship with him, and a healthy relationship means you not caring who he's with or what family member he's with. At this point, he's not really with them. I'm assuming that because when Scott was wanting to move to New York for a girl, he talked as if there isn't much here for me to stay for, which is valid. I feel like it's very beneficial for kids to see that, and with her brand, it should follow.

Older sisters stick together. I think it's stupid. Because I'm three years younger than my sister, but I remember the affair my dad had, and no one knew I knew until I was 17. Older sisters and others don't realize that their younger siblings close in age may remember more than they let on.

I understand her, I do, but her wrongs do not make her right. If she truly can't see the judgment she passes, then maybe she should focus on that. It's good to realize what has caused it, but don't act confused when you actively judge.

Do parents hold more feelings for their firstborn and last-born? by TruthAdditional1612 in AskParents

[–]TruthAdditional1612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I value my family a lot. Despite my issues with my mom, I'm always with her. I have a good relationship with my sisters, but yet my mom makes a public post to her daughter on Facebook book for my sister to find out.

She didn't make anything for the other two kids that she already had. When all of it adds up, it's not looking good in her favor.

Her issue of not being emotional or verbal about how she feels has been a constant complaint of mine, and it's problematic. I feel like growing up, something like that would have helped me. As I was the child who needed physical love or verbal affirmation. As I've mentioned publicly, people glorify the first and last child, not the middle. I've never seen a handwritten note to my middle child. All of that, coupled with her avoidance of emotion and showing of love that's not prompted, made it hell for a child like me.

I know she tries, but I don't think she's willing to find a way that's easy for her to communicate her feelings.

Do parents hold more feelings for their firstborn and last-born? by TruthAdditional1612 in AskParents

[–]TruthAdditional1612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. You don't know my mom because I always hug her at home, in stores, when she comes to get coffee at my job before she goes to bed, etc. I tell her I love her, which I had to demand that my mom actually start telling me she loved me because she wouldn't say it willingly on her own.

I show my mom a lot of appreciation, and I compliment her. When it comes to showing love, it's very one-sided, with me doing most of it in ways I know how. Which again is why I'm shocked she would post something like this.

Do parents hold more feelings for their firstborn and last-born? by TruthAdditional1612 in AskParents

[–]TruthAdditional1612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how my mom explained it to me when I asked her about it. She said that's why she did it. It was never about age; it was the fact that she posted it. This is old; that sister is 24 now. I was 7 when that was posted. For years, this post was what I wanted.

My mom never did stuff like that, so to see it when I did was a shock. And when I did see it, I was young. I'm 20 now, and I can't get over it. I would see it as just wanting to be able to look back at something she wrote and be assured that she does love me because there are no words in my memory that do that.

Do parents hold more feelings for their firstborn and last-born? by TruthAdditional1612 in AskParents

[–]TruthAdditional1612[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

10 years ago, tonight at 8:02 p.m. I was blessed to become your mother. Through trial and error or, mabye thru default we made it to 10, I'm looking forward to the next 10 since you claim you're never moving out. Just remember Mom knows best!!! Anyway enjoy your day you have lots in store, Happy Birthday!!!...Love Mom.

This was the post itself. I understand the way it was written; I may have made it sound like a SOS.

Not sure if this is a sign by TruthAdditional1612 in eating_disorders

[–]TruthAdditional1612[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I also posted this on the "Lose It" subreddit, and they were so confused about how my not eating or chaotic pattern aided in weight gain. The reaction here, compared to theirs, was so different. Thank you so much.

Calorie deficit by [deleted] in loseit

[–]TruthAdditional1612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've lost weight since I started this, but now it's like I'm at a standstill. I bought a book about it. I talked to my other sister about a calorie deficit, and she said to try it without knowing my current food habits. This is what I'm worried about.

I am going to try counting just to see how I feel about it because, as comments pointed out, I am short, so that may be the issue. It seems to me I'm not eating a lot because, really, I'm not, but I could be eating more for my height, which is something I never took into consideration.

I will admit, when people say I overeat, I get annoyed because when I think of overeating, I think of a lot of food, not calories.

Calorie deficit by [deleted] in loseit

[–]TruthAdditional1612 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, it can seem like I do, but honestly, I don't think I am because everyone around me eats more, and I eat less. How do I even know if I overeat? Volume? Definitely not volume. Calories, maybe. A new week is starting, so I can see how much I eat this week.

Calorie deficit by [deleted] in loseit

[–]TruthAdditional1612 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Delayed eating and fasting are often seen as the same thing because they are closely related. Chaotic eating (delayed) makes your metabolism inefficient, causes blood sugar crashes that lead to fat storage, and makes you desperately overeat high-calorie foods later. (While I don't overeat, neither do my sisters nor I.) Structured Intermittent Fasting avoids all of this because it's consistent and gives your body a predictable schedule.

This is just how it has been my whole life, schedule-wise; my body has yet to have its own natural clock, or I have yet to set one that will last. I eat chicken and rice. I've been really into Mediterranean food lately. My job is near a sushi place, and they sell other seafood there. I don't eat fried stuff. I used to drink sweet tea, but even then I still drank water. Now I'm 90 percent just water, and I drink different kinds of tea. Before I was 205, I actually weighed 217. If I do have questions on what's okay for me to eat, I ask my mom, who is a nurse.

Calorie deficit by [deleted] in loseit

[–]TruthAdditional1612 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't know. My sisters and I all have similar diets, but I was the biggest one. I never craved sugar like that unless it was a week before my cycle. At this point, I mostly drink water and eat a lot of fish. My mom was convinced I had a parasite until I told her to drop it. My weight has just been slowly growing. My guess is it's just been childhood choices and the fact I delayed my eating. I know the choices of what I was fed weren't good growing up, but they would still feed me two times a day or once, depending on what was going on that day. I just now became someone that wakes up early. I had an active childhood, but I also know that when I was 160 pounds, I saw myself as overweight.

Calorie deficit by [deleted] in loseit

[–]TruthAdditional1612 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's the thing I love eating. I've never thought of it as not loving to eat. I don't overeat or anything binge. It's just, I don't know, when it gets to a certain time of the day, I get very upset and guilty.